It was embarassing.. I could see her whole privates.. Even the pics we took that day at the pool show her privates.. My GF is sort of head in the clouds type and justn't see it.. Of course, I hadn't said anything.. Isn't this child abuse? Those wicked weasel suits should be banned! What shoud I do?
2007-10-06 06:49:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I can't believe how immodest American woman have become wearing those wicked weasels!
2007-10-06 06:53:51 · update #1
I don't think so ROGER - those pics have already been destroyed! I'm NO paedophile, jackazz!
2007-10-06 06:55:12 · update #2
Ick! Annoying!
You aren't up to date with things. Showing things off in Teens got hot in the 70's (those low cut, private strapping kinds of things).
The Tweens got sucked in and were allowed to do these things in the 80's (though that stuff is expensive and people had better money sense).
I remember Tweens wearing string bikinis openly in the 90's
And at this point that outfit is considered popular night wear for any age.
I remember in the 90's a little girl yelling at me that I was just jealous because I was too fat, fat fat fatty and could never wear a two piece. Quite honestly, I was atheletic so this wasn't true, I just didn't want to show things off. She had a big belly and the tiny two piece kept slideing off and falling off. It was a horrible sight.
These days I even see infants and toddlers in outfits like that and in bikinis.
The most embarassing thing I saw from a family member was when a teenage cousin showed up wet in a see through swim wear with see through something over it that was soaking wet-- to a Baby Shower,.. and she was looking for another cousin of ours that when I was a child I spent alot fo time around, that she said was "HOT!" and she was planning to slink all over. When he showed up his sister and I both gave him a couple warnings and he spent the whole time running around outside and babysitting kids (they had come back early) to get away from her. Unfortunately this is a common mindset of girls :/
You may need to approach her mom and talk to her,.. explain she is far too old and that the oldest that is acceptable is maybe 6, 7, or 8 ( when a growth spur causes clothing malfunctions and some girls are first introduced to modesty).
Now some people are going to rant " You shouldn't be ashamed of your body" Blah Blah Blah. But Tweens and Teens have problems understanding inhabition and that showing off feeds the thoughts of people that WILL ATTACK THEM. That is also totally inappropreiate for a more Public Party. If it is just a girlfriend or two, let them pick on each other,.. but if it's a party where there will be a wide range of ages, then you need to dress conservatively-- even if it's your swim suit.
Maybe she doesn't understand people can REALLY hurt her. And if she is warned she thinks more like fantasy land where you are thrown in a Sundae, tickled, and get married to someone everyone is jealous of -- this Fun little world isn't reality. Reality is some people with those illnesses feel these displays are attacks on them, so they cut you open with a knife and alter you so you can not be used that way and are not attractive. That way THEY can feel better and not be so attracted to you.
I hope she doesn't have any of these online. I have known of people that have been killed in the chain reaction that follows. They may not have been friends but they were there one day talking to me and friends and gone forever the next. Forever is a long time for a teenager and the anger can get misguided or denile can tempt them to do the same to try to prove the world isn't REALLY that way, then someone else gets hurt, kidnapped, raped, or killed >.< (Yes, I have seen this happen, too.)
2007-10-06 08:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by sailortinkitty 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is a wicked weasel suit?
Perhaps you should sit your GF down and explain to her how much of her daughter that suit was showing and that it is dangerous for a child to be exposed like that! There are many pedophiles in this world, such as the first answerer to this question!
(edit....after the asker sent me a link to the website) Okay, this woman definitely needs to have someone sit her down and explain what it means to be a parent and how she should be protecting her child, not exposing her!!! That is just disgusting for a child to be wearing, especially with grown men walking around!!!
2007-10-06 07:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I googled Wicked Weasel bathing suits. OMG ... I'm sorry, but your friend has a lot more lacking, than just her 'head in the clouds'. Although this may not hold up in court as child abuse, it is definitely child neglect. Your friend is neglecting her duty, as mother, to keep her child safe from possible emotional or physical harm. By allowing her VERY YOUNG daughter to wear such swim-wear, she is putting her daughter out there to possibly be a target for rapists and pedophiles.
Talk to your friend ... she needs you to tell her just how inappropriate her daughter's bathing suit is, and how it may affect her daughter's safety.
2007-10-06 07:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had to look up wicked weasel suits just to see what your'e talking about.. Oh, my goodness! Call me prude, but a twelve year old should not be wearing that! I really think her mom knew good and well what her daughter had on and what it revealed..sorry.... and either the one answer with the first initial "R" is a kid "trying" to be funny or just a total loser.
2007-10-06 07:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by zen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her head out of the clouds. 12 years old need parenting and can still make stupid decisions. Wearing this suit is obviously one of them. It may not be child abuse, but it certainly child neglect.
If you have the pics somewhere - find the worst and shove it under her nose and make her see what you see.
2007-10-06 07:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely talk to your girlfriend and get her head out of the clouds. 12 year olds have no business wearing something like that.
Somebody said these swimsuits should be banned. I agree with them.
2007-10-06 09:53:25 · answer #6 · answered by pete 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wear your bathing suit with a t-shirt and then bring a extra pair of clothes
2016-04-07 07:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should ask your GF if she likes the idea of both older men and younger men and obviously everyone gawking at her daughters private parts. What kind of message is she trying to convey? This can only lead to more seriouse things later.
2007-10-06 07:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by guitarrman45 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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Wear your swim trunks with a t-shirt and some flip flops if you have some.
2016-04-04 10:53:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-10-06 06:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by rogerquinn10 1 · 1⤊ 13⤋