i have a huge crush on this guy he sits in front of me we talked sometimes to each other . Anyway i told my guy friend that i liked him and my guy friend told him and now the guy that i have a crush stoped talking to me. Does he hate me because i have a crush on him ?
2007-10-06 06:09:11 · 13 answers · asked by HopeSo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. People don't develop a feeling as strong as hate simply because they find out that you are interested in them. Maybe he just doesn't know what to do now. He may like you but not know how to express it OR he may not like you and not know how to interact with you now. Either way, you shouldn't worry. Continue to try to talk to him. He'll let you know how he feels.
By the way, if you didn't ask your friend to tell him that you like him then you should have a little talk with him for going behind your back.
2007-10-06 06:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all that guy is not your friend if the first thing he did is tell. what kind of friend does that?
Maybe your crush guy was starting to feel the same and is a bit frightened or playing it cool, it is difficult to stop liking someone just like that. I think you still have a chance give him time, talk to him about it if you are comfortable with it, but don't push, make a joke of it tell him you have a crush on the guy who spilled the beans see how he reacts have fun, your young its ok.
2007-10-06 13:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he doesn't hate you, because it sounds like he doesn't really even know you. However, it could be that he doesn't share the same attraction for you that you feel for him, and therefore is perhaps trying to avoid your attentions. Try something simple such as smiling at him, looking him straight in the eye and saying "hello" for a few days when you first see him in class. When you do, look in his eyes to see his true reaction. If he looks away, and his eyes don't smile back at you, then you need to move along. Remember that all worthwhile relationships are built upon shared experiences and interests...whereas "crushes" are simply a bodily desire. Focus on finding true friends first, and then see what they turn into.
2007-10-06 13:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by HelloQ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he doesnt hate u if he talked 2 u nicely be4 u told him u like him.sometimes well most of the guys wen they r in puperty or in middle n elementary skool,they r shy around girls.so wen they noe that a girl likes him he gets nervous n doesnt noe wat to do n they think they shood go away from u....so yeah just try 2 comfort him n communicate with him.dont JUST talk about dating,luv,etc....tho...
2007-10-06 13:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by *~TWINKLE~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure he doesnt hate u. he just doesnt kno what 2 do. its kinda akward to hear that some1 has a crush on u if u dont really kno them dat well.
2007-10-06 13:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't hate you, but some guys act stupid when they find out you like them in that way, they don't know how to act. Give him some time and hopefully he will stop acting stupid.
2007-10-06 13:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he doesn't feel the same way and now he's weirded out by it, but he doesn't hate you.
2007-10-06 13:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by excelsiorgtr420 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably doens't hate you,
but just feels really weird and awkward.
i would probably leave him alone,
because doing anything would probably just make it worse.
2007-10-06 13:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by k.ryckman 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No of course he doesn't he's just embarrassed fool that he is.
2007-10-06 13:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily you did not know the that he told him by
2007-10-06 13:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Muayad Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋