i cant take it any longer!!! my family hates me. my "friends" hate me! I have evrything togethre and i'm at the libray with my bike and clothes, and cash, and stuff... I dunno what i'll do or where i'll go(im thinking library tho). but i'm not gonna stay w/my parents any longer!
now, i want you to talk me outa this. im sick, iknow. but i need som1 to stop me before i go too far
2007-10-06 06:00:05 · 22 answers · asked by Crazygirl ♥ aka GT 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i know its wrong, but i cant stand the abuse at home! i'm yelled at all the time! i can finish school fine b/c its a cyberschool and i can do it at thelibrary computers
2007-10-06 06:13:23 · update #1
im 13....iknow the town real well and i make maps in my head quickly. im not gonna get lost or anything
2007-10-06 06:14:30 · update #2
im 13....iknow the town real well and i make maps in my head quickly. im not gonna get lost or anything
2007-10-06 06:14:35 · update #3
What are you going to do for money, for food, shelter? (you cant SLEEP at the library. So Im guessing its gonna be a bench or under a bridge?)
I thought things were getting better since you told your mom. Did something else happen?
I know people are cruel. It wont be too much longer until you are old enough to make it on your own, but for now, you do need your family. I know you might find this hard to believe, but your parents do love you.
What are your little brothers going to do without you there to protect them?
Its fine that you went somewhere to cool down though. You need to be away from negative thoughts for awhile. Just relax. Stay at the libray, or something. But you should go home tonight.
Unless you have a friend who hasnt stabed you in the back yet, or some family near by. You might need to crash, just for awhile.
2007-10-06 08:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs Adorkable 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie,
Running away is never an answer. I know at some point in life we think no one loves us, but they do. Sometimes we make it hard for people to love us.Like I've always told me grown daughter, I'll always love you, but I may not always like you at the moment. Your parents are just being parents because they want the best for you. When you have children of your own you'll see what a hard job it really is. It's the hardest, most rewarding job I've ever had. So just go to the library and cool off for awhile. You do not want to run away because there are some terrible people out there just waiting to hurt young people. So suck it up, take a deep breath and remember tomorrow will be better. You're in my prayers.
2007-10-06 06:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi GT. Why do you think the folks hate you? I wonder how old you are and if they have hurt you in some way. The world is a very dangerous place out there. Where ya gonna sleep tonight? If you're planning on bounceing around from friend to friends houses, that'll run out soon. Where will you get $ and food? Can you at least talk to your parents before you do something drastic?? My bet is they love u and they want you home. Hope so. You are in my prayers.
2007-10-06 06:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by MissnNC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is staying at home worse than being raped, beaten up for something you have with you, or laying frozen under a bridge,
with rats sniffing at you? If that doesn't happen, you can still get arrested and put in a juvenile detention center. If you are being physically abused at home, or mentally abused call
the police. If not, go home! You only have 6 to 8 more years of a secure place to eat and sleep, cherish them! If your
father or someone in your home is sexually abusing you,
call a rape support hot line, and the police
2007-10-06 13:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by V B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait slow down a sec, i was the same when i was 15, if your in england its not easy untill your 16 i was 4 days away from my birthday and i could have escaped but i didnt police caught me and took me home, if thats what you call it the reason i ran was because my uncle threatend to kill me basically, my nan had just died my parents had split, now if your serious then we cant change your mind so best thing to do is stop think, now there are places to go but i wouldnt recommend it, you can goto a hostel, if your over 16 if your in england they might not take you i ran from hastings to perth, scotland and i moved into a hostel the first one was bad but the 2nd one was better, still bad but better, now i suggest think do you want that life after a year or so you will get your own place if its easy for you to get a job then get one, job centre will pay for your accomedation if you aint got a job, and if you do live there on the daul then you can goto college and get some qualifications, but the choice is yours im not saying do it im saying the choice is there if you really need it, if things are really that bad please keep in contect and let us know your ok
2007-10-06 06:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not run away honey. i know at this point you think is bad and you cannot take it any longer, but things can go even worse than having a family who hates you. At least they will not sexually abuse you. Do you know how many bad things are outhere?
Don't go, please, don't go. i did run away too and i got myself raped 3 times. Don't do the same mistake I made. Wait a bit longer till you are 18 and you can have a job and a life of your own. There are bad people outthere, alot worse that your parents, trust me. Do not get yourself killed! is not worth it. Just be strong, search for help. Anything is better than being outhere in the streets.
2007-10-06 06:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Natalie A 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to go back home you will only make things worse by running away it makes a messy situation even messier it is difficult somtimes to get along with parents and not knowing much of the situation only your side of it they dont have it easy either have you ever thought about how sad it is to find out that your daughter has decieded to runaway that she can no longer feel like she can talk with her mom and dad and the only way she feels she can deal with things is to runaway you should go back home talk with them let them know how you feel but remember you are only 13 or 14 and you will be talking to your mom and dad and not one of your friends the rules are diffrent you have no idea the kinda of extra crap you are brining on yourself by running away if you cant talk with your parents then try talking with a grandparent or aunt or uncle so I say good luck to you and I can only hope you make a mature decision it will be one that effects the rest of your life
2007-10-06 06:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kenny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WE have all been there sweetie. Sometimes home life can suck. Just make the best of it and do your time. If your friends hate you then they are not true friends. Dump them and find new ones. As for your family I'm sure they don't hate you they just might be irritated. Find a hobby or after school activity to get your mind off things and to get out of the house.
Hang in there and you will be safer at home for sure!!
Take care ((HUGS))
2007-10-06 06:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Strong HandZ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do Not Do That, deep down inside you know you don't want to do that! maybe you and your parents just have communication problems that can always be worked out.
the outside world can be very cruel and you will not find any love out there. stay home and work thru your problems, don't give up! you have your whole life ahead of you. i know everything seems like it is against you, but in reality you have the world in the palm of your hands.
one more thing, i am your friend and i do care about you.
Audrey♥
2007-10-06 06:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, now that your at the libray I'd deffinately stay there, like I said I couldn't think of a better place to get away from your parents/ "friends' for at least a while!
I can't believe your friends said that, though, they should've noticed you needed to be helped and instead they call you things over it! That's evil!
2007-10-06 06:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋