i just can't cope with keeping up with everything in my life and expenses i just can not afford there's no way out. i can't deal with anything anymore. i'm contemplating taking a massive dose of pills
2007-10-06 05:24:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Never take a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
Talk to a financial counselor about debt relief
2007-10-06 05:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know sometimes i feel the same way. I live in Los Angeles, Ca and everything here is very expensive!!! ppl are constantly trying to rip people off and keeping up with the finances are hard!!! What i believe you should do to begin is that you should get all ur bills organized, paying the ones that are due now, try to budget ur money and see how much u can pay. For example instead of paying the minimum of something, pay a lil more. Another thing is that u shouldnt spend money on things u dont need. instead on spending money on unhealthy fast food. Learn the cook at home. Dont always buy things that are expensive just cause of the name brand, learn what other products work. Be more sustainable too.!! Instead of taking pills, which will put u in worse state of mind n its not going to pay ur bills, try going out for a walk (with ur dog if u have one). Dont do drugs, they are a waste of money and make ur body look less sexy. Good Luck hope i helped!! email me if u would like to discuss more.. =)
2007-10-06 12:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by 2PHAT4U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you have thought about this. You figured out who is going to love your cat when you are gone, who's going to be there for the ones that need you. Look around, youir life is more than making money and paying bills. You got yourself in this situation but the good thing is that it is only the money!!!! Money is just paper printed by the government to pay their bills. Your problem is you got caught up in it. Just relax and do what you can, if you fail the worst thing will be that you lose everything, but that isn't how it happens, if you lose everything than you are still a step ahead, you get to start over without any bills and a lesson behind you that will give you an advantage this time, you know what not to do.
You know it is just a bad day today and you'll get through it fine. You aren't really worried about taking the pills, etc... But you do need to get a handle on your life so that you enjoy it more. When your on the bottom, look around, you will see that the bottom is still way down there and there are lots of people down there looking up at you. Then you need to reach over and help one of them up to your bottom.
2007-10-06 13:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by James Q 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, start with vitamins as a practice run, see if you can do the gigantic swallowing thing, without making a no-second-chance decision that you cannot revoke.
Seriously; money is nothing but a bookkeeping issue. There's help out there for just about any type of issue, certainly for financial concerns. First step to getting out of a hole is to stop digging and get some help upward. It might be painful and messy, but you can get there.
Thoreau wrote "Simplify, simplify" and it is still good advice today. Clear your plate of things that really are not important and focus on those things that are important.
2007-10-06 12:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Things are never as bad as they seem. If you're financially stressed try filing for bankruptcy, I know George Bush, has made that much harder to do but i think there are still ways you can get some relief, seek the advice of a lawyer...Hey, you never know whats coming up around the bend...don't give up, don't end it all, keep kicking, better days are ahead...
2007-10-06 12:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, slow down! I've been a biker for a long time, and we have a saying: FTWBTWFY...which means f**k the world before the world f**ks you..who the hell are you letting hold the score card? What the hell are you using for points? Money is shite...the worst of all lies...walk away, buy an old hog, and get some righteous in your life. If you're too busted for a hog get a shitty job, sleep in a rooming house and save yer money. Discover the dark side dude...you're killing yourself for nothiug...a bunch of lies they filled your head with when you didn't know any better...now yah do..On purpose..With purpose. Be FREE.
2007-10-06 12:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Greg H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope you're not serious, but i have to assume that you are. i am going through a similar financial situation right now. i am about to lose my car, house, job, not to mention that i have a child about to graduate high school this year. all bills are past due . i'm just praying that something changes asap. death may alleviate your problems but what about the people who count on and love you. they would be devestated by your death. don't be selfish, hang in there and remember: that which does not kill us ,makes us stronger. you are stronger than this set back,keep fighting. bless youand take care.
2007-10-06 12:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by BQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you end your life just for money problems? Money problems are part of life. To cope, learn how to live simply. Do not spend beyond your means. Do not let others pressure you to do otherwise.
2007-10-06 12:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Bamboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the money shortage influence you in that drastic a decision.
If you live in the USA society gives everybody as many fiscal chances as they need.
Chin-up, chest out. Hut, two, three, four. Don't forget to close the door.
2007-10-06 12:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Beejee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are allot more people out there who are way worse off than you are but they keep going for a good reason. They enjoy life more than money. Start realising what LIFE is about. I can assure you my friend it's not money.
2007-10-06 12:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by rosco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋