2007-10-06 04:52:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no, it's a fever, people get those every day.
right now my grandma is in the hospital, and I haven't gotten to see her but I've talked to her everyday on the phone. she understands that I have family and work to take care of and I can't drop everything to drive 500 miles, when she's not even that sick and will be out in a day.
after she gets out of the hospital I'm going next week (the soonest I could get off work) to go see her. It doesn't make me a bad grand daughter, you just have to do what you have to do and hope everything works out for the best.
Now if she would have had a massive heart attack and the drs didnt' think she was gonna make it, I would have sped the entire way there.
But no, I don't think you're being bad granddaughter.
2007-10-06 04:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you worded the question in such a way you seem to be the victim here...of course you're not "very bad" but not very good either. Sick and fever aside (one would think your grandmother would prefer not to have visitors while she is running a fever) you should visit her on a regular basis. It never hurts to save some time out of your schedule to make someone else's life happier.
2007-10-06 05:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it doesn't make u a bad grand-daughter. it depends according to the circumstances. if u r able to go but u dont wanna go although ur parents r forcing u to go or anything then it would be better to go for a visit . The distance between your grand mother and you also depends. and for aged people simple fever can turn bad very fast
2007-10-06 05:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by HBK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean you are a bad grand daughter, but I think you should visit her at least 3 days a week and help her out. Make her feel comfortable.
2007-10-06 06:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Muslim woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on your grandmother's views.
Personally if I was in your grandmother's position, I wouldn't want my granddaughter to visit me because I wouldn't want people gloating over me when I'm weak. I've been in hospital many times in my life and it's really embarrassing when friends and relatives come pouring in and staring at me to see what's wrong, asking me to explain everything.
On the other hand, your grandmother might want to see you. I don't know what condition your grandmother is in, but if it's very serious (i.e. her sickness could be fatal), you should visit her... she would want to see you one last time. (Sorry for being a bit blunt/insensitive here.)
I think it would be good to give your grandmother a call (if that is appropriate), and have a chat to her - see how she's doing etc. If she seems to be doing alright, then it may not be necessary to visit.
2007-10-06 05:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your granny probably doesn't want you to get sick. I mean if she was in the hospital, then maybe..but even then people understand these things... You are not a bad person for not visiting a sick relative...Just give her a call and tell her you love her.
2007-10-06 05:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 10:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by miceli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi... if your grandmother has a fever, then whatever she has is probably contageous (flu? sinus infection?)...
you're not a bad granddaughter.. if your grandmother isn't at death's door, and just has a cold or the flu, i'm sure she would rather recover than to spread germs.... if she needs something she will call and let someone know. right?
take care
2007-10-06 05:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do what you feel but visiting her would sure make her feel better.If you love her you should consider this.Even though not visiting her does not make you a bad grand-daughter since you know that she is not seriously sick.
2007-10-06 05:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by vicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it does not make you a bed grand daughter but i would go and see her and spend all the time that you want with her because you never no how much more time she has left with her.
2007-10-06 05:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋