2007-10-06 04:41:28 · 25 answers · asked by Sara S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u guys are harsh.... i didnt say i TOLD him that was the reason.. i made up something else and was kind about it. but basically i would have stayed longer if he was better in that area.. and i do feel kinda bad about it or i wouldnt have asked at all
2007-10-06 04:52:54 · update #1
If you're not happy in a relationship (for whatever reason) you should not stay. But let's think about this, would you rather be with a man who respects you and your family, treats you like a princess, and is always there for you who as a small .... or a liar jerk who has a huge ....? In the end, I don't think what's below the belt really matters. What should matter is what kind of person he is, right? Good luck and I hope I helped.
2007-10-06 04:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No you are not. I know the sex is not the most important part of a relationship but it ranks pretty high in my book. If you're not sexually satisfied in a relationship it's going to cause tension and you're not going to be happy. I was in a relationship like that and I tried to give the guy a chance...even suggested a few things to try in bed...but still I was feeling nothing. Eventually, you're going to drift outside of the relationship for that satisfaction. Its nothing like feeling that emotional connection to your partner and if you don't have that then you don't have a good relationship. So, its better to break it off instead of cheating. If you decide to try to make it work...keep a toy around or two and make sure he's damn good at oral!
2007-10-06 11:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by concernone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The small one that you refer to is down there right? So many other ways to have him satisfy you without the small one ya know what I mean? I don't know how far I can go here on yahoo answers but the tongue down there is amazing too. Toys? There are a lot of VERY nice sized toys if you get my drift. Don't know if I'm pushing limits here just thought I'd give you a suggestion.
2007-10-06 11:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Some people really need great sex to be happy in a relationship. So if that is what you need, then find it. And I dont care what anybody says, a tounge can not make up for a little....
2007-10-06 22:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did the 2 of you communicate at all about your needs and desires? If you do not have communication about things you like or desire to please you both during this time then you both are left out on a hanger! With any relationship the key is to have open communications about everything! If you want him to know how to please you, then you will need to be open, honest and let him in on what your desires are! He is not able to read your mind! The same goes for anything you desire in life. You need to open minded when it comes to his needs and wants as well.
You have the desire to make any relationship you have happy, with everything you want! This is normal for all of us in life. The one thing you need to have is open communication with yourself and the one your with. This maybe hard to do at first but when you find the one person you want to spend your life with you will open up and share the things that you want and need for you both.
Good luck
Rags37:):)
2007-10-06 12:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are whatever you believe you are. Unless you decide then other people to will decide for you as to what you are or are not. You come here asking for people to judge you. Who will you let decide as to what you are? us or you?
Deep inside there must be a bigger reason more than just something having to do with his downstairs, that made you want to leave the relationship. You just don't see it yet.
You obviously didn't love him because when you love someone, sex is good, everything is good.
Good luck!
2007-10-06 11:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sol 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you care about him size shouldn’t matter but you have to be sexually satisfied as well. Breaking up just because of bad sex is a bold move. You might be limiting yourself on finding the love of your life.
2007-10-06 11:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by Spike 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may be kind enough to tell him another reason for breaking with him, but if you, yourself, know that your reason is about his size, then you should consider yourself a *****! It seems that you never felt anything special for him to take as a consideration to make your relationship work out.
2007-10-06 13:31:55 · answer #8 · answered by just_liysa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i wouldn't think so cause that is part of him and if you don't like that part it is best to move on find what you like...it would be just dragging out a bad thing. and to it will be good for him to move on too cause i don't think anything is going to make the relationship better...cause sex is part of a good relationship not the main thing but a big part of it so move on and find someone else and no your not a bittch
2007-10-06 11:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are a ***** for telling your boyfriend that he has a small one and bad in bed. You should have made up an excuse to make him feel better. YA KNOW?
2007-10-06 11:45:10 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful Glory 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋