ok i met this girl at work...we had lunch once and i told her i liked her she started giggling and made me repeat it...she never told me she had a boyfriend until i asked her...i gave up and tried 2 months later....now im more open about it and talk to her more...i always give her little things to make it up when she told me she was sick i brought her a cup of tea with lemon and she liked it..other day i got her chocolate and pulled a hershey kiss and gave that one seperate..i got her perfume and i caught her telling her friend about it and made it noticible to my attention..i asked her whats goin on for the weekend and she told me nothing with a look...i told her in a email how i feel about her and all she responded was..."you makin me blush"...i asked her to lunch but we couldnt keep it because we were both busy that day..so i brought her food and tooked it to her cuz she is busy...she is in the breakfast club and got me breakfast last time...do i have a chance?what should i do now?
2007-10-06 03:29:14 · 8 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
i think shes confused...is she showing signs that she likes you back?
does she have her bf with her?
women are changing creatures....
it sounds you really enjoy the company and if you plan getting more of that or move on to the next level then you should ask her if she wopuld like that too. ofcourse find a good timming to ask her that and make sure you get a straight answer from her. just a simple yes or no.
ill leave that part up to you, although i dont know the outcome...but its your choice if your willing to risk it..to have a chance being her man..
ill pray for you dude..:)
2007-10-06 03:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is there any reciprocal type of actions? That will tell you a lot. The responses you listed are the "Oh that is so sweet" type, not the I want to date you type.
I would do this. Try to set up something more formal. Stop the little gifts and lunches things. If she is busy, or needs to check on something else, you have your answer....Not interested in dating you.
After that be real friendly, but if you are interested in dating her, then don't do the buddy thing. If she starts seeking you out of iniating contact then you say, great lets go on a date, and if yes OK, if no then she just wants the buddy thing. My opinion that is waste of time. I would say 99% of the time that type of relationship mostly one way.
2007-10-06 10:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Gatsby216 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, gotta agree with Superman up there. Gotta do it. However, I suggest you have a talk about her and her boyfriend too. I've broken up a relationship for my own feelings (teehee) and she broke me. Make sure you know how she feels about that first because, unless she's a huge sl'ut, she is feeling uncomfortable.
2007-10-06 10:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you have evry chance.
next step dinner and drop a couple of hints about going to the next step or getting a bit more serious x.x
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2007-10-06 11:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by MegSTAR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Does this chick have a boyfriend or not? She sounds immature and not worth the trouble you are putting into it.
2007-10-06 10:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by REM 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What I would do now is to take some English grammar lessons.You don't start a conversation with "ok"
2007-10-06 10:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by solara 437 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pull the trigger dude. She's going to get tired of you not going for it.
2007-10-06 10:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have gave up months ago. Move on
2007-10-06 10:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by the truthteller 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋