I'm still young...mid twenties, and I am currently working on my Masters degree. The career ahead of me is constantly on my mind. I am very excited to begin my career in this particular field but I only want to do it until I have a child. What are your thoughts on this?
2007-10-06 03:00:29 · 13 answers · asked by nutrgirl 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment ➔ Other - Careers & Employment
Bravo on the Master's degree. I would work until your maternity leave is up and see what you want/need to do.
If you decide to stay home that's fine but I would keep up with the happenings in your careeer field. You might be able to do something with a flexible schedule or from home.
When I first stayed home with the children it was great fun but I so wanted more adult interaction not having to do with just playdates etc.
It's hard to tell one person what they should do as it's a really personal decision.
I was able to stay home for a few years and worked part time at night when hubby was home so we could buy our house. Once the oldest went to HS I made the decision to be here when they got home and eventually started working from home. But that's what worked for MY family, it might not be what works for yours. Just listen to your heart when the time comes.
2007-10-06 03:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by kimba 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its your life and I believe you have the freedom to choose whatever you feel would be the best for you and your future.
In making decisions:
1. look at all the pros and cons
2. know your priorities and what's important to you (is it having a career? or building a family first?)
3. pray and ask for His enlightenment (I believe He can pave the way to ease your decision making)
It is good that at a young age, you already know what you want. Planning ahead is the key to ensure that whatever decision you come up with - its for the BEST!
2007-10-10 00:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by addicted too 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find nothing wrong with that. I also have a career,but when i become a mother i want to stay home with my child. I think that maybe when he or she gets into middle school than i would think about going back to work when they are in school.
2007-10-06 03:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your goal, then make sure you find a mate that shares your ideas about being home with the children. Also make as much money as you can now, and invest it wisely, and your mate will need to be financially secure enough to be able to swing all financial burden himself, without resentment. Its not easy, I am at home with my little ones and I work harder now than at any previous job. Oop duty calls good luck!
2007-10-06 03:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by melissaw77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is admirable. You will have your eduction to return to the career path after your children are grown. Just keep up through reading and staying current in your field so your educational efforts will not be in vane.
2007-10-06 03:07:18 · answer #5 · answered by jdb392 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that. I'd love to just be a stay at home mom, but I'm a single mother and don't have a choice other than to work. It would be great to have a husband to support me so I could stay at home, but you have to keep your options open in life. It's good that you're getting your degree. You'll have that under your belt in case being a stay at home mom doesnt work out.
2007-10-06 03:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by I love my baby boy! 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it's a great thing. After all, once those kids are grown up and moved on heir own, you'll have your beloved career to fall back on if you decide to go back to work.
2007-10-06 03:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Clare 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am meeting more and more women nowadays who want to stay at home and bring up their children. As this is the most responsible job in the world I admire all women whose aim is to do this.
2007-10-07 00:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that... if it makes you happy and you don't harm anyone with your plans and wishes, go for it!!
If later on you decide that "just" being a mom is nothing for you, you can always go into the workforce again, right?
2007-10-06 03:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by lievedebs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wonderful that you want to be a full-time mother. I admire you for having such great dream, especially because in today's world it's politically incorrect.
2007-10-06 03:10:46 · answer #10 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋