Family Problems?

Question

Ok I am having a big family problem, please help.
Ok My mom and dad are split up. My dad met this one girl and she has two kids. A boy who is 13 and a girl who is 4. I have a sister also she is 8. And My sister had a little crush on the 13 year old boy. We was telling her dont do that b/c its not right. But the 13 year old was agging it on though.And he kept hugging and kissing my sister. And that night my dad caught the boy ontop of my sister. He melested her. And my mom told the state(my sis lives with her) and its being investegated and the woman told us already that she believes my sister b/c the boy is lieing. And Basicly i hate all of them the boy, my dads girlfriend. But my dad is not going to put his girlfriend out. And he is asking me what should he do and i would say put her out and he would go and mess with my head like all physological and i dont know hwat to do so people please elp. I really need all the help i can get!! Thanks alot!

Answer 1

Your dad is a grown man and he has no business asking you to decide what he should do. Tell your mom he is doing this, and see if she can keep you and your sister away from his house until that boy is gone.

Ask your mom to help you get some counseling, your dad is of no help at all if he's choosing his own selfish needs over his children. Until he grows up, keep him at arms length.

Answer 2

That boy what he did was a cruel thing and he should be dealt with, And I can't believe your dad is asking what to do, it is common sense when you have a child you put their needs ahead of yourself don't hate because it is not worth it, but you need to talk to your dad and let him know how you feel.