me and m bf are going to have a break from tomorrow night. i move to motel from tomorrow night and look for a new place to live.. the reason for this is i lied to him about my nationality and job for 10 months, and we had quite nice relatioship that equal and fun, but as i am stil a student, his parents think that i am using him fro money and confort which manipulating him as they cal all the time checking out..i am sad and hurt as i thought he would have loved me as who i am but does he really love me still? by moving out, i still have key to his place for a while and he told me that we still exclusive until he makes final decision..i asked if i shoud prepare to move on and he told me that he cant answer me anything that is relating to whether the relationship is over or not as he doesnt know...i really love him but i feel myself in the passve situation as i told lies..what's happened to his heart, what does he have to decide...? what should i do?
2007-10-05 21:34:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"Does he love me still?" The person he loved doesn't exist!
2007-10-05 21:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You lied. Why do you ask what he has to decide on? Why would you lie about who you are? Love is not deceiving. It is for real. Are you a stripper or something? What do you do that would constitute NOT telling him what kind of work you do? He thought he loved you for who you were too, until he found out you aren't who you obviously said. His love was based on false foundation. Just stop feeling sorry for yourself and realize you messed up. If you pitty yourself as much as it sounds like you do, you leave no room for anyone else to feel sorry for you. NOT that anyone should.
2007-10-10 04:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels betrayed. You lied over something pretty important. I'm sure he just feels there is no trust here! Just back off and give him some time. If he truly loves you and wants to be with you he will come around. If he decides to continue the relationship it wont be easy to gain his trust and you will have to be honest with him about everything if you want to build his confidence in you. Hope you the best. Just be honest.
2007-10-06 04:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First of all you lied. Not a little lie but a lie about who you are. Even if you think that it's only a "job", but even your nationality!!!
I wouldn't know either what to decide..... If you really like this person you will just have to give him time....
2007-10-06 04:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by RT 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Give him some space and let him miss you. He's hurt that you didn't trust him and that you lied. He didn't do the wrong thing - you did. Be encourgged that he didn't end it right away. If he loves you, he'll forgive you. If not, better to find out now.
2007-10-06 05:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by hoona_girl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
For the first place, don't tell lies. Because time comes someone will uncover the truth. If he is mad about that and wanna cut your relationship then he is not in love with you.
2007-10-06 04:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Raulo 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
be grateful he showed you how much of a man he is NOT and move on honey. you could do better. it has been said that if you have to hide things from someone you involved with then that is considered a red flag and should be checked out immediately.
2007-10-06 04:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
in a relationship u must not lie.. is ur fault.. he should ve lose the trust on u by now.. just move on in life.. stop lieing..
2007-10-10 04:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on!!! where is your dignity!! If you ask someone about your relationship and he sais i don't know then you shout get it yourself. It's over honey. Don't look back !!!! Go on with your life. I know it will hurt you but if he really wants you he would never say : " i don't know".
2007-10-06 04:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by little kitten 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Use the spell check.
2007-10-06 04:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋