My husband is my whole world and I love him unconditionally. And I tell him that every day. On several occasions, after I come home from work, there is evidence that he has been entertaining a female. I am very sexual and good looking. I have always been the initiator in the bedroom. We have been together for 13 years and he just bored with me. I have even been pursuing a threesome. But he keeps putting it off. I feel so betrayed because he won't include me and prefers deceitfulness over what could be a lot more fun to explore together. Whenever I try to talk to him about it he gets defensive and angry with me.
2007-10-05 20:46:46 · 4 answers · asked by d e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's a shame he won't talk to you about it, because unless you can convince him to discuss things with you, it's a dead end situation.
2007-10-05 21:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Sally Anne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should look into counseling.
If i came home and found that there was evidence that my husband was entertaining other women, I would be really pissed. Also, if you have to go out of a marriage for sex or sexual enjoyment, then there are problems that run much deeper than just sex.
2007-10-09 20:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by klm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is that your husband should be a big part of your world. NOT your whole world. If he is your whole world and leaves, you got nothing.
Let other things into your life and don't put people on a pedestal. They will not be able to live up to how you see them.
This bridge is probably burnt. Live and learn.
2007-10-05 20:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put, and trying real hard not to be mean, you need to establish your self esteem.
You are a beautiful woman and deserve better. Now accept nothing less than better.
2007-10-05 20:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋