For about a few weeks now i been experiencing extreme sharp pains in my vagina. I cannot walk properly, sit, or stand at times because of the pain. I am only 17 and a virgin and absolutely too embarrassed to tell my mom because she is going to assume im having sex which im not. so how do i figure out what is wrong without her knowing or does anyknow or think they know what is up? what if it doesnt go away soon?
2007-10-05 19:16:57 · 6 answers · asked by Siroonig 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Since you're 17, I recommend that you call your pediatrician and schedule an appointment to talk with him/her (sometimes its easier to speak to a clinician than to your own parent).
There are a lot of problems possible you may be having, none of which are specific to having sex...
Your pediatrician may reccomend that you visit a gynecologist, and they can help rule out any physical deformity or inflamation that is causing your pain.
For some people, having the support of a loved one in a time where things are scary and confusing, it can be very beneficial. If you can't talk to your mom, is there another trusted adult in your life that you can discuss your concerns with, or have them join you on your trip to the pediatrician? An aunt, your school nurse, a cousin or close friend? Sometimes, having the support of a loved one can be very calming, and if your mother is an openminded sort and believes in you, sitting down and writing her a letter about your concerns may be a good way to get the channels open. You can even print out your yahoo question if you need help getting a conversation started.
Your reproductive system is not something you want to wait around and 'see if it gets better'. If its an infection of some sort, the end result could be that you'd be unable to have children in the future. Thats a very high price to pay for feeling embarassed and not getting it looked at in a timely fashion.
I wish you the best of luck, and I urge you to get this problem assessed by a healthcare professional soon.
Good Luck.
2007-10-05 19:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please let your mom know what is going on. If she does say something about the issue of sex just be honest with her and tell her that you aren't but that you are concerned about this pain because it has been going on for several weeks. Because of how long you have had it this needs to be evaluated by your doctor to see what they think could be causing this. They can help you to try and figure out what is going on.
2007-10-05 23:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by sokokl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her what is going on and if she assumes you are having sex then tell her point blank that that is not true and you will not allow her to make false accusations about you. You need to go see a doc right away since ths has been going on for weeks so please go first thing in the morning or even tonight yet to urgent care to get checked out.
2007-10-05 19:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he didn't hit your womb. You may have been too rough during sex. Do you dry up a bit during sex? You may want to make sure you have some lube handy if you plan on having long bouts of sex and also maybe tone it down a bit in the roughness category for a while.
2016-05-17 07:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom.
tell her your not having sex.
most likely its nothing, but you need to see the md just in case.
have a problem w/mom? print this page and hand it to her - she'll understand.
2007-10-05 19:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by bl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get vagenal wipes and go to the doctor
2007-10-05 22:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋