my girlfriend is so weird.. i want to go to my friends house to play xbox and drink a few beers which i dont do often and she tells me i dont want u to go i wanna talk to u on the phone.. cmon thats why she doesnt want to let me go? i told her no im going and shes like no ur not i wanna talk to u on the phone .. whos wrong?
2007-10-05 18:29:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is wrong!! She has to let u get out and do your own thing!! Im married and my husband always goes fishing, or too play pool because I know we all need our own time... She better wake up before she blows this relationship...
2007-10-05 18:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean? Talk to you on the phone? Talk to you from your buddies house or from your house? Any way that doesn't even matter. Go out and have some fun with the fellas. Everybody needs a break sometimes. I mean you said you don't go out that often so, if that's the case then go have some fun. She should be more understanding. No one wants someone who is clingy and that's what she sounds like.
Hope this helps.
2007-10-06 01:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by shell11435 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you if you are right or not! First of all, does she live away from your place? Because if that is right she may needs to talk you everyday on the phone to feel safe and to be sure that you love her! Secondly, if you live near each other she may be a little bit excessive! But she doesnt want you to go, because your friends may bring here other girls and she is jealous! What you have to do is to talk to her easily and calm, tell her how you trully love her and make her feel safe and happy! She will definitely let you then! Good luck!
2007-10-06 01:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about being wrong or right. dont ask a question like this here just so you get a couple of guys telling you yeah bro your right... listen, just take time to reassure her. its not that she doesnt trust you. maybe shes been hurt by a guy doing "guy thing" with his boys in the past. just talk to her. we cant help you! lol. youre not wrong. but try to be there for her, even if you think shes acting crazy and even if you dont get it. trust me. if you do, youll be her favorite person. but dont whine or complain to her. actually reassure her. and then enjoy your beer ;) be good! lol
2007-10-06 01:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by montrealgirl108 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't tell anyone i told you this. most womens' inner girls, the inner girl that comes out when you're in a relationship, is a crazy psycho *****. my inner girl is, and my poor boyfriend has to deal with it a LOT.
there could be a lot of reasons. but just always remember, every girl needs to be reminded of how important she is. doesn't matter how long you've been together. she might be feeling ignored or she might have been looking forward to talking to you, but doesn't know how to say that in a way that won't make her feel vulnerable...make time for her later. make plans to see her, or something special to do for her. and follow through on those plans...girls never forget.
2007-10-06 01:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfiend needs to realize that you need some guy time. If you don't do it that often (once a week.. once every two weeks) then she is in the wrong.
Maybe time to look for a new girl who isn't so controlling over you?? Or maybe you need to make more time for her??? If you spend more than three times a week with your guy friends, you may need to spend a lil more time with her... but then again, she may just be trying to control you.... hard to tell..
2007-10-06 01:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by monkeylips23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see this as right or wrong question with a clear answer.
Maybe she has something she wants to discuss with you? Maybe she is lonely and need to hear your voice? After all, she IS your girlfriend and you care about her, right?
Somehow, all that got lost somewhere and you turned it into who's right type argument. I hope you asked her if everything is ok with her.... did you?
2007-10-06 01:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u say its not an everyday thing, so that would make her wrong. everybody need a little something for themself and thats ur time, does she have friends> encourage her to do something with her friends or family while you do that. if there is no compromise, there is no relationship.
2007-10-06 02:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by Chula1973 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmmm I say both of you.....theres gotta be more giving than taking...not quite sure how that works but you give your friend up for her she may give up that phone call for you and than.....maybe you guys will resolve to.....go together or something....I know wierd answer but there is no right or wrong here really
2007-10-06 01:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Ria B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your girlfriend and tell her you are not comfortable with what she is doing,tell her to give you some space and let you enjoy and that you are not her property. if she still freaks out then cool off, separate, tell her to mature.
2007-10-06 01:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋