After a long four years keeping to email/text my ex. He finally came back to me, but the reason was his current GF asked him to leave after she found out my emails. I know I should move on, but I can not help but to contact my ex. Last year, he came back to me one time, then, he left again. Should I take him back?
2007-10-05 18:13:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move onto someone who wants to be with you ALL the time, not just sometimes. Trust me you will be happier. Just because you two have been at it for so long doesnt make him the right one. See what else is out there, try not talking to him for a month and see how you feel.
2007-10-05 18:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Snow Bunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOUBLE NO!! Whatever it is that's keeping you back is also keeping you from moving forward to something better. Trust me, it will only take someone who treats you better to make you realize what limits you are putting on yourself, but if you don't believe that you are worth it than he'll keep you stuck on the ground for as long as you let him.
2007-10-06 01:17:45 · answer #2 · answered by christie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please help me to understand something here....what is about your ex's that you had to keep in touch with him over a four year period? what was the reason for the break up between you and your ex's? do you want him back so he can leave again is your answer.
2007-10-06 01:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex had no trouble cheating on his girlfriend, by texting and e-mailing you. He has left you twice before. And he only came back this time because his GIRLFRIEND kicked him out.
How many ways to you have to be told that this man will continue to USE YOU, as long as you let him?
2007-10-06 01:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a glutton for punishment? How many times are you going to allow this man to break your heart before you've had enough.
Move on and leave him in the past!
2007-10-06 03:24:46 · answer #5 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you have to do is stop that martyrness and try to create a new you..there are still many people around..
it's hard to forget someone you loved but it hurts while he keeps on being unpredictable..i mean, he come and go...
so, give now more attention to some of your life's aspect and ban him out..if you were meant to be and if he really loves you, he will do such things not to make you cry..
2007-10-06 01:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by jael p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, u dont want him to treat u as a temporary refuge each time he is chased out by another woman !
Try seeing other man, forget him !
2007-10-06 01:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by Rootbeer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you need to leave this man alongl the only reason he with
you is because someone else does wont his butt. time to
get back in the game, he the past, he need to stay there.
move forward.
2007-10-06 01:18:31 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends.......why did you divorce? if it was a stupit mistake and you know he's a good guy and that he loves you then take him back but if not move on and let him go! it could be deppressing but if it's the only way do it!
2007-10-06 01:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by Heeva S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
folow ur heart but hell probably keep doin the same thing be carefull try not to get extremly attached try putin a wall up u no wat i mean it seem like he is using you tho and that ur just a fall back girl u should leave him but u wont so put they wall up now let him no how u feel about wat he is doin
2007-10-06 01:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋