But you love your husband. Do you think it can work?
2007-10-05 17:52:00 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ ~Sigy the Arctic Kitty~♥ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh oh! I wasn't asking about Myself! I'm not married or bi! I was just asking and I guess I asked the qustion wrong..sorry my bad!
2007-10-06 04:54:32 · update #1
I do not think that it would work, if your an active bi sexual and married you are still being unfaithful to your husband even if it is with a women. If you are not married yet ,tell him, in this day and age ,anything can happen, Maybe you can form a threesome! its a possibility.
2007-10-06 02:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just because you're bisexual doesn't mean you can't be monogamous. Being bisexual just means you're interested in both sexes, but that doesn't give an excuse to cheat on your spouse. Now, if you do decide that you want a girlfriend on the side, your husband has the same right to have a girlfriend as well.
If you feel you cannot possibly be happy without a woman in your life, maybe you're a lesbian and would prefer a wife.
2007-10-05 18:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by some female 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't it?
Being Bisexual does not mean you are any different from everyone else except that you are attracted to both men and women. That does not mean you can't be faithful or marry.
These questions really TICK ME OFF!!! I know a lot more heterosexuals that cheat and F-up their marriages then bisexuals!!!
2007-10-06 02:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are bisexual does not mean that you cannot be faithful. If you are hetersexual does that mean that you are no less a risk?
It is what you so with being faithful that counts, doesn't matter what sex/sex's that you are attracted to.
2007-10-05 22:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by kiwi chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a bi-sexual woman for 12 years. She chose not to have relationships with other women although I told her it was OK with me. We had a good marriage for a long time. It can work, but you have to keep communications open.
As for a guy with a bi-sexual wife who wants to have another woman, well, I would be open to it as long as I could be involved. But not completely shut out.
2007-10-05 17:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Be faithful. If you were heterosexual it wouldn't be okay to sleep with other men. When you took your vows you agreed to give up sexual relations except with your husband. You need to honor that.
2007-10-05 17:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
What exactly are you asking? Your marriage can work even if you are attracted to women....however if you act upon your feelings with a woman..then you are cheating....makes no difference that it is with another woman.
2007-10-05 18:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Cheating would be cheating, no matter if it were with someone of the same sex or the opposite sex. Cheating would be the issue, here.
2007-10-05 18:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
hey if youre calling yourself bi it means your still pretty confused. its like you cant figure out yet if you like dudes or chicks. youre just not ready for marriage yet. your marriage will be a disaster and its not fair to your husband. youd better get your head straightened out first.
2007-10-05 19:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
I agree with Ali... If you get another girl in he bedroom with you and your husband, You'll be amazed of how good it can work out.The best thing is is you don't have to be secretive with your husband about this.
Good Luck
2007-10-05 17:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by LeighAnn D 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋