Tell me about the one you can't get over (at least 3 years)?

Answer 1

I was in love with my best friend from the time i was in 9th grade i met him in typing class, His name was guy miller, I fell in love with him, we ended up dating for a while then kinda of went our own ways, i am 36 years old now, Married twice and he is not the one, But I did get over him, it took a long time, almost 20 years. I still love him and always will. But then I realized i was giving my love to a man that was not mine, and he was happy very happy, and when i started to love the one i was with with the love i had for the one i lost i ended up being very happy, and i dont think about the one i lost any more, until questions like this one comes up. you have to go on no matter what, or you need to go up to him and say I love you and I needed you to know that. but you will never stop loving that special one, but you need to love others to. be happy do what it takes to make you happy.

Answer 2

She’ll always have a place in my heart, even after 5 years. Although I can’t say I’ll ever regret leaving. I know it was the right choice, but I still wish that I could have made another.
We were high school sweethearts, we even got married. Time apart (school, life, etc.) wore heavily on our relationship even before marriage. Afterward the threads really began to show in Technicolor. We broke up for a third time. I thought for the last time. I felt hollow. The void I thought would swallow me whole. We kept in contact, the friends thing even though we were in two separate states. Then it happened like it did many times before. The torture I felt, I didn’t feel it alone. She wanted to try again… again.
With an opportunity like this With the last vestige of love I had, I jumped into the relationship with both feet, letting go of all ways out. Moving out to live with her in the apartment she found for the both of us the year before. Leaving the job I had, family and friends behind. Why you ask? Good question, this was the last time, I knew, and she knew it. Soon the sobering reality that I left my place of strength, to this place of weakness began to burden and stifle this “heroic” attempt. She had a job, she had the place, and I… well I was there. I got a job where I could but making very little. This didn’t help us either, old wounds began to swell and fester with the fact that money was tight tore at us even more. It quickly became a bad idea moving here... no, it was hell. Metaphorically, my skin had been removed and every word or look felt like a grain of sand in my raw tissue. Nothing I did was good enough, nothing I did worked, the more I gave the more I failed. I got a job that paid more as a bartender, but even the extra money was balanced by the jealous insecurity of the mind. Fights became more heated, and intimacy wasn’t making up the slack. The relationship had to end and it did.
I know, I'm happier for it, but love never ends without remorse.

Answer 3

I've liked this guy for 4 years and he never liked me as more then a friend. It was amazing because we became friends after I liked him before we were friends. I was so happy until he started dating my best friend a while ago. :( They both knew I liked him but I told them that I didn't want to stop them from going out. I think that was a good thing though. Everything happens for a reason and it's helped me realize that I'll love him forever, but I can still move on with my own life. On the positive side We're still good friends, and I think I met someone just about as great as him!
It all works out eventually!

Answer 4

Oh my god. It was four years ago, and he was the most amazing perfect man. Only he didn't give a #$@% about me!
He was super smart (brilliant) and a spine surgeon. He spent a lot of his time caring for patients w/o healthcare and doing this "doctors w/o borders" type of program. He was wickedly funny and made fun of himself all the time. He was 6'8. Whenever I was with him he treated me like a princess and told me I was "perfect". Every time I was with him was like the best time of my life.
Only, he treated me so bad!!! Most of the time a month would go by w/o me hearing from him. He would take days or weeks to answer emails. One time he even forgot about one of our dates, when I'd been obsessing over it for a week!
I think that he was having a mid-life crisis, with his relatively recent divorce and things falling apart in his life. Plus, not liking me all that much and basically using me (although he probably would never admit that to himself).
I still compare every guy I meet to him and needless to say they are all drab now. Also, it's because I never REALLY go to know this guy (even though this torture lasted for a year) and so I never got to know his annoying habits and shortcomings the way I do with guys I actually have a relationship with.
I broke up with my boyfriend two days ago, and I spend more time feeling sad about "the one who got away" than I do about my ex who I dated for two years!

Answer 5

There's this girl that I love. I've love her for 10 years now, but I could never tell her.

It's because we live in different worlds...
different enviroments...
we even just have 2 or 3 common friends.
Heck, even horoscope says we're not compatible.

But I do love her, she makes me happy. She makes me forget all the worries, and just live life to the fullest. She gives me strenght to face my fears and courage to do what is right.

I tried seeing other people you know, a lot of them too, but I just cant rid my heart of her. How I wish I could get over her, and love someone else as much as I love her.

Answer 6

There is always someone better than somebody. so if you have lost that somebody than you can still find and be with that someone.
dont sweat. relax.
3 years is nothing.......i know of people seperating after 10-15 years. it takes time but eventually you should get over it.

take care.

Answer 7

There is one whom i have loved since i was a child. i am 31 now. it is a love that has never gone away even tho we dont see eachother or talk. he was the one person who was there for me thru the roughest moments in my life. a truly special person. we were together off and on for 6 yrs. i still wonder how he is and if he is thinking of me as i do him. which i am sure he is.. i was his first love ;)

Answer 8

my first real love lasted 6 years and i would not trade that time for anything. we were still together when he shot hisself in the head stting at the foot of our bed. we had a fight and he tried to kill me. i hollered for his son to call 911 and he opened the door and told his dad to stop hurting me. he let me go and i took his son and left. he told me he was going to commit suicide, but i was scared & did not know what to do.

Answer 9

Dont bother wasting your quality time over the past. They are all history. Just hump them and dump them. Over and done with.

Answer 10

this freegin girl, i cant get her out of my head, we where together 4 all summer vacation but then she went 2 another school and did some f*cked up thing 2 me... oh god im an idiot...