My boyfriend n I been having problems. We mostly fight about the "lil" things, but to me it's a big deal. Ex: he doesn't spend time w/ me but he spends time w/ his friend, going surfing. AND he doesn't talk to me about his problems, n I ask him to talk to me but he doesn't, he says he talks to himself to deal w/ his problems.
These are big deals aren't they? lack of communication, n the fact that he always spends time w/ that single friend of his.
But anyways, I love him so much despite that we fight a lot. n I care about him a lot. Plus, I know that he has much on his mind about a lot of things (he hasn't told me about) but I know that he does.n recently, he just got mad because I was bugging him about telling me how he feels,n he brought up saying that he doesn't want me to care about him anymore.
He's a very stubborn guy, n I know that when he is mad he says things that he doesn't mean. but sometimes it hurts so much. Should I leave him, or just stay w/ him but give space?
2007-10-05 17:16:04 · 5 answers · asked by Sarah B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Holy crap girl give the guy a break! No boyfriend or husband wants a whiney girl bugging him about his feelings. Drop it or you are as good as done! When he has problems in his life and needs your help he will ask you to help him and confide his feelings to you. I know girls like you, and when I'm around them I cant wait to get away. Stop being annoying and bitchy and then some people will like being with you. In order to keep a man happy, you need to be fun, happy and positive yourself. If he feels happy, admired and adored by you, you will have him forever. Good Luck, Swequin
P.S. THAT SEVENTEEN MAGAZINE ARTICLE IS TOTAL CRAP!
2007-10-05 18:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by swequin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say this but it sounds like the relationship is over. He is detached, doesn't want to talk to you and he tries to make you feel guilty for trying to help him. Also the fact that he doesn't spend time with you seems to me like he might have someone else on the side.
The following is from Seventeen Magazine . . .
Five signs your boyfriend is cheating on you
If your guy is doing any of these things, watch out! You may not be the only girl he's dating.
Guys are unfaithful to their girlfriends for different reasons, but the signs are universal. Consult this list of shady behavior to see if your boyfriend may be cheating on you.
1. He's acting distant. If he's calling less frequently or has cancelled on plans repeatedly, he may be trying to pull away from you--because he's getting close to someone else.
2. You can't get in touch with him. If you try to call your boyfriend and no one--not even his family or best friends--can get a hold of him, you've got to ask yourself where's he hiding out and why?
3. He's suddenly insensitive, like he totally forgets plans and then shrugs it off. He may not be considering your feelings because he's thinking about another girl's.
4. His interests--or looks--have changed. If he's developed a new taste in music or clothes, it may be to impress another girl--or because of her influence.
5. He's stopped inviting you to join him in his favorite activities or at his usual hangouts. If you're not going with him, who is?
2007-10-05 17:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 19:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by lothrop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gets mad over stupid things, dump his @$$ on the corner!
2007-10-05 17:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Gerbes Slave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is this song 50 ways to leave your lover. .. has lots of ideas.
2007-10-05 17:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by art_flood 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋