me and my boyfriend like to have sex. a lot. but everytime that we are doing it its always hard. and fast. it never lasts longer than about 20minutes. why is that.? also he moans a lot is this normal? i just want to have slow s.e.x. i mean i like it hard. but no all the time. anyone else have the same problem?also does anyone have any tips on good things to do in the bedroom.? thanks in advance.
-Maxy <33
2007-10-05 17:14:22 · 12 answers · asked by maxylauren. 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Discuss it with him, tell him that while you do enjoy fu*king, you would like to make love from time to time too!
I am almost certain that if he were to slow down and try it that way at least once, he would find that making love is at least as pleasurable if not more so then fu*king.
He may have conditioned himself to "speed humping" from his years of masturbating.
2007-10-05 17:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by bender_xr217 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should tell him how you`d like things done every now and then. you are allowed an opinion in this area, y`know.
and if he has a problem with that...let him take care of himself for a while.
a lot of young women worry that if they don`t have sex the way he wants it, he`ll leave them. what`s the loss if you`re having sex you don`t enjoy 100%?
sometimes slow and easy can be more of a turn-on than hard and fast, unless he needs it to be hard and fast to show who`s in control......
2007-10-05 17:36:42 · answer #2 · answered by miss kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it to go slow at 1st then hard, he sounds alright to me. He moans, so do I. If you don't like what he's doing just tell him. good luck.
2007-10-06 05:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by Gone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, nobody likes a get it up shove it in kinda guy. You need to get on top so YOU can determine the speed.
2007-10-05 17:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by southparkbuddha 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Damn baby,
Dump your boyfriend cause he cant control himself. Guys who go fast and hard are like little boys who go beserk when they see a naked woman.
REAL MEN have self control and take it REAL SLOW.
Email me and I will give you some tips.
see ya
2007-10-05 17:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have him take Cialis it last for 24 hours and you can have an all night orgy
2007-10-05 17:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by Goodhead 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to slow down
2007-10-05 18:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did my girlfriend tonight and it was a total of about 12 minutes. Takes me about a minute to 2 minutes to ***.
2007-10-05 17:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by chessman777fischer 3 · 1⤊ 4⤋
get on top then you control the ride.
2007-10-05 17:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
he is not making love to u---he is having sex
2007-10-05 17:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Katz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋