-This affects the marriage?
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2007-10-05 13:18:29 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
This issue is not so simple as merely "taking care of ones figure"... Growth hormone diminished greatly after 25, and drastically after 30, and almost entirely after 35... During growth, this hormone not only supports this, but it also keeps fat under control... After marriage most people are of the aforementioned ages, thus less growth hormone means larger waistlines... In addition, adulthood brings stress which causes the liver to produce cortisol (the destructive hormone)... When released, one of the negative effects is belly fat... SO... Couples should be less superficially judgmental about appearance and more understanding of each other...
2007-10-05 14:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Brat Sheila♥♫ - the Precocious 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe that when people get married they become "family oriented" you begin to have family type outings...people eat
then you get to a point where food is not eaten out anymore but cooked at home this is where square meals come from.
you get to a point where you begin to get settled in...most don't intend to gain weight ...it just happens....
now if your the type to exercise and watch your diet in the beginning....there should be no problem after marriage but sometimes it just happens when i married my husband his waist was 29 by the end of the first year he had gained 50 lbs i on the other hand was a large size woman to begin with so i have not change in appearance other than to lose about 45 lbs. we love each other the same as we did when we got married and will soon be married 17 years might i add i am 12 years older than my husband lol he is 38 i am 50!
2007-10-05 13:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by itsme 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think married women and men don't take care of their figure is because since they are married, no one is really gonna to see them as in dating and they start to slack off. I don't think this affects the marriage if both husand and wife don't mind being big but if one side were to dislike the figure of the other. then we got a problem.
2007-10-05 13:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by july28usa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married I worked out like an animal. I was in top shape...not a piece of fat on me.
My wife didn't work out.
I guess a lot of guys feel they already have their mate so they don't have to attract one.
Now I am middle aged and I am more concerned about my health and general level of well-being and fitness than about looking like a calendar model.
2007-10-05 13:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant really answer this question but i do notice this as well. I dont see why let yourself go. My hubby & I both still get our work outs on & we happily married but we do love ourselves & care about our bodies & overall health. I refuse to let go in a bad way & I surely wouldnt sit back & watch my hubby appearance go down hill. I think it may be stress for some couples. Stress can do a body bad.
2007-10-05 13:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by fiestynay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see in some cases it could affect a marriage....some of us guys do like curvy women though....for some its health related or even due to genetics...depends I spose what the marriage is based on
2007-10-05 13:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Just a guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi gentLE m@n....
lolzzzz.....it sound really funny but i know that this is the fact...i think married people think that once they r married...they can put on weight...n it doesnt matter...but dude it does matters....putting on weight...specially after marriage is not a good sign...it really affects the marriage....i'll say u 1 incident...1 of my aunt....was married n was having 3 kids...she was fat.....but not that fat...but so-so fat....her husband lost interest in her n got involved with oter ladies n hence the marriage got dissolved 6 months back...when the husband was asked the reason...he said that she didnt maintained her self properly...so sick right....so it do affects the marriage...so my advice 2 all people...men n women...plz maintain your figure...coz thats the 1st thing 4 which both the partners r attracted to...tc...sweet dreamz...bye....
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2007-10-06 03:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by $@LLu 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's not true for every married person. We been together and married 13 years and I haven't let myself or my appearance go. I still like to wear clothes that are in style and young like me age. I watch my appearance for myself because I wouldn't want to be unfit. It just would personally make me feel bad about myself
2007-10-05 13:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by Deedee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There could be a unsleeping attempt to be made via all of us to maintain the solid discern.After the marriage needless to say they bask in lot of activities and continually spend the time in leisure purely which will avert them to maintain the physique in superb condition.They take lot of foodstuff not in popular hours.extra prosperous intake devoid of doing corresponding workouts facilitates the extra fat to be deposited in diverse component of physique. kinfolk household projects are additionally further maximum well known to an entire life of tension.All such issues needless to say develop the load and via loss of workouts the tummy grows superbly.
2016-10-06 04:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because when some people get married and feel really loved and comfortable they sort of let themselves go, don't think they have to try that hard anymore. When I married my now ex, he one day said to me, "I really thought you'd go all fat on me." And I said,"Don't you think I take pride in how I look?"
2007-10-05 13:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by Kate J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋