I'm bi and have had a wonderful boyfriend for 5 months now. He's such a good guy, and he's so honest and trustworthy. He has absolutely no idea that i'm bi and today i cheated on him with a girl..................................... i'm so disgusted with myself i came home and threw up :/
should i tell him??! ...i don't want to lose him, but as good as he his he deserves to know the truth.....uhhhgg
2007-10-05 11:18:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You gotta do what is right for him and for you if not you will suffer and it will fester into a horrible mess.
2007-10-05 11:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Robert F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you really care so much and he is that much of a good guy. He deserves to know the truth. Honesty is really the best policy. He will respect you a lot more if your honest with him. but in the near future i would say to tell boys that you decide to date or start a relationship with that you are bi so incase you do cheat again the shock of it being a girl wont make them so upset. Apologize and do the best you can to make it right. good luck and i hope my advice helps
2007-10-05 11:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear Juniper,
If you are this upset, I am sure that bf will sense the truth.
Since you have only been together for 5 months, it is not like you have ruined his whole life, but you may have ruined your relationship because you have not really been completely honest about yourself from the beginning. Since you answered your own question by saying he deserves to know, maybe you should just go with that and tell him. I wish him luck.
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2016-11-07 09:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, don't tell. But this is all screwy. Bi's should go with bi's because the bi/gay relationship does not work out, although it might seem to when you are young. So if your relationship with this guy works well, either you are both bi or both gay.
No time to explain, but trust me.
2007-10-05 11:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if it was just a one time mistake and you are dedicated to your boyfriend, then save him the pain. If he is going to find out about it from someone else or if you plan to repeat this pattern, then you should tell him.
However, YOU MUST TELL HIM YOU ARE BI!!! How can he really know you if you keep this from him? It isn't fair.
2007-10-05 11:24:44 · answer #6 · answered by Auntie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you must tell him the truth. You will not have any kind of trust in your relationship if you do not. If he leaves you, then you deserve to be left. If he stays and forgives you, you'd better count your luck stars, and NEVER do any thing like that to him again.
2007-10-05 11:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by Antdak 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur bi if u keep sneaking around he could find out and hate u even more for not telling if hes kind enough to forgive u and continue the relationship thats great if not then move on
2007-10-05 12:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitely messed up. How would you feel if he cheated on you?
The only thing you can do is tell the truth, and hope that he forgives you.
You may want to consider inviting your friend over for drinks too. This might make him feel better, if you know what I mean.
Maybe this will open new doors for both of you.
2007-10-05 11:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he will understand. Guys seem to care less when it's a girl, than another guy. Freida Kahlo cheated on her husband many times with girls, but when she cheated on him with a guy, he went crazy.
2007-10-05 12:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by ren 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be better if he found it out from you.... Things that you think would never come up again always seem to... It is better for your relationship to be honest with him... The sooner the better... Hope everything works out for you.....
2007-10-05 13:40:18 · answer #11 · answered by precious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋