Women only please.?

Question

In so many different Q&A's I see where you women write that all us men look for in a woman is the way she looks. Well answer me this, you all dont??? Im 5'10 235 with a muscular build just a beer belly, and lets just say I dont get came on to all that often. So you women want looks too?

All of you ladies that I have read so far have great answers. This question is not intended to be a sob story on how I dont get many looks, but on how men and women are alot alike when it comes to looks. I myself do not look like Drew Carey...LOL However I can carry on a good conversation, I love to laugh and make people laugh even if it makes me look stupid. Atleast I got you to smile. I drink, I smoke, and I love to party.

Answer 1

It may be because I am a little older than you but you can describe yourself all day. If I can't sense sincerity, truth, and caring in your actions I won't bother talking to you. I personally look for a guy who is intelligent, interesting, has some life experience and can keep up with conversation. It also helps if we can laugh at the same things. If all a guy knows about is beer-n-boobs then we have no common ground (well not much anyway).
OK you have told us all how you look, now tell us something interesting about yourself
Edit-Touche' at least that's a start to telling us something interesting...

Answer 2

Im a woman and I admit it! The first thing is looks. But the second is the smile and the eyes. But you are 100% right- a nice butt will get me everytime!!!!! And face it if u look like drew Carey- u will not get many numbers. sad isnt it? I think both sexes are guilty of it

Answer 3

I think everyone is initially attracted by looks. I mean have you ever heard some say to the person across the room "I want to get to know you because you have an intelligent mind"? Of course not cause they dont know that yet. For most people (in my opinion anyway) looks have to be a certain way then they have to have something to keep their attention.

Answer 4

So what your saying is that venus and mars are actually quite alike? Men are looking for the good looking and women too?
I just love a man with self confidence! One that says " Im all that and the chips too! " Looks are great but self confindence has it too!

Answer 5

I would be lying if I said looks didn't matter. Being attracted to someone is what starts the whole relationship. I have dated attractive guys who had bad attitudes and they became un attractive to me. I once met a guy who I wasn't attracted to at first, we became friends, and he became the most attracive man I had ever known. In the end it doesn't matter what he looks like, I just want substance.

Answer 6

Hi bear. I always go for the looks first it is important. I think just by looking at someone you will get the butterfly's then you know you want to know what there like on the inside.

Answer 7

I ain't gonna lie cause it's not my style,
LOOK DOES MATTER CAUSE IT IS THE REASON WHY YOU ARE LOOKING AND STARING!!!
When you noticed someone,the one thing you'll say in your mind would be "D***,he fine".Same goes for the guys.
Yet at time you can fall in love with the average girl/guy.Even if their looks would never appeal to others,you just know that you fall in love with the all package.

Answer 8

Not all women are like that, just like all men aren't. There are women, like me, who look at the total package, rather than the exterior only. The ones who judge you based solely on your appearance are not the type you would want anyway, are they?

Answer 9

Women can be just as shallow as men. But like men, not all women go for looks alone.

Answer 10

I never had a real preference. I like whom ever I take to. I've dated all types. I understood your question just fine.