where do i start?..
there's this guy, we've been friends since middle school
and he used to always flirt with me in the 8th grade. When we got to high school, we are even better friends. I had a crush on him, but then i overcame it and i SWEAR i have no feelings for him. The only problem is that i see him flirting with numerous girls around school and i feel jealous. Tell me some things i could do to get my mind off this dude!
2007-10-05 09:42:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he says hi to me when we pass by time to time, i never even NOTICE that he has a girlfriend when we talk, though.
I feel like it's just me & him in the world when we have conversations, jealousy goes out the window.
2007-10-05 10:17:08 · update #1
find someone else to be jealous about,
or just get used to it.
girls that do the whole,
"i don't want him - but you can't have him",
are terribly annoying.
2007-10-05 09:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by k.ryckman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a fear of being replaced! The problem here is, eventually you will. Let's say you found a boyfriend. You'll want to give him/and he'll want to give you undivided attention. Your now, good friend will do the same when he finds a girlfriend.
We all have jealous twinges or tendencies. (Except people that have no heart) To have good friends of the opposite sex unfortunately seems to get in the way of relationships. Do you think your friend will ever find a girl good enough for him as you could be?? Could that be what your secretly worried about?
2007-10-05 17:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get used to thm when you notice the fellings ar ganno go away, try to luaght or make jokes with him about it.
Or maybe you do like him, but is normal just deal with them!!
2007-10-05 16:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by golondris_1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Siarra: A hard question.
Just take one day at a time, do not let him find out about what you feel.
Pray for help.
2007-10-05 16:53:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be subconsioulsy crushing. Howver, you also may be simply a friend and you don't ant anyone to take him from you, because you value him.
Hope I helped,'
LOLA
2007-10-05 16:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find another guy or flirt with other guys to see how he reacts..
2007-10-05 16:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Monique 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the one contolling your emotions. dont let your feelings ruin you. try to make steps to stop this jealosy feeling.
2007-10-05 16:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by sherlina z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Subconciously you look at him like your property.
2007-10-05 16:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by [ kila tequila ] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋