called and asked me to pick him up @ the hospital. We havent talked since before Aug. because I found out he was taking a woman to Vegas. I decided to pick him up @ the hospital, he was in an auto accident and I was confused because he does not drive. I found out he was in an auto accident with a (FRIEND) and they couldnt find a ride home. The FRIEND was hurt quite badly, a broken arm and hurt leg. Low and behold it was the woman he went to Vegas with. My husband told me that this was JUST a friend but I do know they are more. So when she got into the car, my husband was very caring and compassionate towards her. I was furious. We were driving and I purposly took the highway, which I never drive. When were were about 5-6 miles from their exit I pulled over and made her get out of my car, and he was furious. She was on crutches and he was kind of banged up. I told him that for as much as he screwed me financially and that they found their way to Vegas they could find their way home.
2007-10-05 09:36:04 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
On one hand I want to say, You go girl! on the other hand, Wow! It was a little harsh.
I would have never let her in my car and would have told him what I really thought of him right then and there.
I guess you both learned a lesson, huh? The nerve of some people!
2007-10-05 09:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by wondermom 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Pamela. First off it took a lot of balls for you husband to even ask you to pick him and 'friend' up. And it was very thoughtful of you to do so. Personally although this whole situation does sound kind of funny and that you might have handled it a bit immaturely, I can honestly say that I probably would have gone in the other direction before throwing them out of the car. So you did save them some cab fare by only having to pay for 5 or 6 miles to be taken home. If I was you I most certainly would not feel bad for what you did. And I guess it isn't true that what happens in Vegas stays there. Bravo to you for having the guts to do as you did.
2007-10-05 09:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Whoah! a few things I have to know...Were you separated when he took his "friend" to Vegas? If you were still married and living together, He has a ton of nerve even calling you- much less providing a ride for the other woman.
I can imagine how much better you feel- that took guts!
I would have chickened out and told them to hail a cab.
I should take no BS lessons from you!
2007-10-05 09:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by redmane_at_stargazer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This was childish, vengeful and down right cruel. How could you put a woman on crutches out on the highway 6miles from anywhere? What kind of person are you? If you did not want to pick him up you should have said no. If you did not want to take her home you should have said so and left her at the hospital which was at least a safe place. Suppose she had gotten hit by a car and killed. No one might have accused you but you would be guilty of murder and that would make you the worst one of the three. Two wrongs never make a right.
You should just go ahead and get a divorce and stop letting this soured relationship make you a bitter,spiteful, hate filled person. You are half way there already so you need to check yourself. There was no excuse for your actions, no matter what was done to you or how you still feel about it.
2007-10-05 09:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 4⤊ 5⤋
Sweetheart your husband violated you by placing them in that setting and you should've left them both there at the hospital where you picked them up from they would've never made it anywhere with my help! I'm sorry I would've never allowed neither one of them in my car and 5-6 miles from the house is better then what I would have wanted to do to the both of them! Being banged up, they both got what they deserved! You see God will slow walk them and fix it in a way that you don't have to do anything to the both! It often happens like that! Good for you but taking them from the hospital was a bit much you didn't have to do that much! You should've left them there....................... His *** been gone scence Aug. how did he work up enough nerve to ask you to do anything especially being that he wasn't dead and on life support!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Some Nerve)
2007-10-05 09:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You left them stranded on the highway? Boy, are you lucky they didn't get hit while they were out there, or decide to charge you with endangerment. I'm not saying you didn't have a right to be mad, but you could've just turned back around and left them at the hospital.
2007-10-05 09:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by MM 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I love it! I would have done the same thing!! I probabley would'nt have let the B*tch even get in my car, but if I did'nt know, until later, then yea, I would have done the same, good for you sticking up for your self, they both sound very childish, and are both user's! She and him both got what they deserved, but did you make him get out too? It did'nt say, but I am assuming you did, I applaud you, you have accualey made my day! I wish I could have had a chance do something like that to my ex!
2007-10-05 09:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by leah j 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
As much as I want to say this is the most awesome thing I have ever heard----
What I am going to say is that the girl wasn't the one that was married to you. She suffered more than he did in this instant. You just looked like a big jerk to him and her and everyone they tell (after they are done laughing under their breath about how much he deserved it.)
You should of dropped his bu** off and given her the ride home. Maybe told her the what for about the man she was with.
2007-10-05 09:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by momof2 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Leaving them on the highway could get them killed.
Leaving injured people, no matter how slimy, in a deadly situation puts you lower than them on the humanity scale.
Either don't pick them up at all, make them get back out at the hospital, or take them all the way home. Don't go for manslaughter by proxy.
2007-10-05 10:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by stenobrachius 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, that was a little catty but he did deserve something. Personally I would have left them at the hospital and never let either one of them step foot in my car.
2007-10-05 09:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋