Do you feel a closer bond/stronger love with your wife/gf if you share a child with her compared to a wife/gf that you don't. What i mean is does a child bring you closer to someone? And NO i don't plan on getting myself pregant to get a guy to like me more thats not what i'm asking.
2007-10-05 09:25:09 · 9 answers · asked by kim f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And....my hubby was more loving when no kids were around.
2007-10-05 09:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by dawnUSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will always love my wife no matter what.
Children has strengthened our bond in a special way so that now we don't only love each other, but we both also love our children.
My love for my wife is stronger than the day I married her even though our lives have changed and are more hectic.
I might not always show it (and her too) but we both know that we will always be there for each other!!!
2007-10-05 09:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by JJT34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that I would say that. My wife and I were probably closer before we had kids and we definitely fought less, even though we both have similar ideas on how to raise kids. Now, it seems everything centers around our boys... love the kids to death, but I wouldnt' say it strengthened my bond with my wife.
2007-10-05 09:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Yogi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Upon the birth of my oldest daughter, I understood, like the breaking of dawn, what unconditional love was. Her birth made a profound effect on me, causing me to begin to transform by becoming more mature, more patient, and more generous of myself. These improvements which her arrival wrought in me definitely produced a positive change in my bond with my wife.
2007-10-05 09:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for some maybe, but it the bond of being a family (only those who appreciate having one) but love is love you love that person not because of the child but of what you share being a family yours or not.
2007-10-05 11:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by 10tolife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its more so for the woman. There are a few select guys who think their wives/gf are the biggest heroes for giving birth. And love and respect them more for it. But I think they are far and few between. I know a guy at the office who literally thinks his wife walks on water since their child was born 18 months ago. Every time we discuss our children, he praises his wife and her efforts for giving birth. And frankly I find it totally sexy and very endearing.
2007-10-05 09:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my case no, it did at first but then my wife focused 110% of her attention to the kids and we barely even speak anymore.
2007-10-05 10:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, no it did not change anything. The two bonds are different and that works for me.
2007-10-05 09:34:30 · answer #8 · answered by bootsontheroad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married twice so my answer is unique in that regard. With one ex, yes, that is a factor, with the other one, no, it doesn't matter one bit.
2007-10-05 09:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋