should i forget about this girl that ive been crushin on and then i finally told her how i felt about her but she said that she didnt like me in that way but then she promised that she wouldnt tell anyone but then i found out she did and word got out ssayin im a bi but i am and i didnt want people to find out
SO SHOULD I FORGIVE HER OR HATE HER???
2007-10-05 09:16:20 · 6 answers · asked by lil red 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
u shouldnt be afraid of ppl knowing it only puts stress on u all u should say is yes i am and be proud of it and forgive her it will only make things worse if u dont
2007-10-05 09:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, this girl cannot be trusted. You placed your faith in her and she betrayed it. In my opinion, she is not to be trusted again, or forgiven.
On the other hand, hating this girl for her misjudgement is not the right thing to do either. Making enemies does nothing but impede the process of life.
Final conclusion: Let this girl know that what she did was completely and utterly wrong, that you do not approve of it. She is indeed entitled to her own opinion, but not entitled to share your secrets with the world. From there, it is entirely your decision whether or not to forgive her. As I said before, however, hating her will solve nothing.
Good luck!
2007-10-05 16:26:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lost Finding 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her, and move on. If you hate every person who offends you or hurts you, you won't have time to live your life.
Hold your head up high and be proud of who and what you are, Red.
2007-10-05 16:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it a friend or lover that you seek? She has shown to you that she will not be silent on an issue of concern to you. She has told you she is not sexually attracted to you. What other signals do you require?
2007-10-05 16:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by m z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FORGET HER.
if she can break a promise that easily, she's not worth your hate or your forgiveness..
or your time
x
2007-10-05 16:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
freeze her out till she apologizes .then forgive her . then invite her over for a two person slumber party .
2007-10-05 21:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋