2007-10-05 09:13:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I did not get tired of my husband but I was the one unfaithful. I was just so fu.cked up in the head. He got tired of trying to help me and I pushing him away.
Please try to find the passion again. Take a long weekend away and make love all day long.
2007-10-05 09:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all you shouldn't let this happen, unfortunatelly we are victims of routine and we have other priorities when we are married that when we are bf's. Remember love in a marriange isn't just there it's like a car you have to give it maintenance, your car would not work if you don't maintain it. Well is the same thing with LOVE in a marriage, and first of all what are you tired of???
There might be some things that you don't like about him that make you think you are just tired, talk it over and i will suggest you guys to go to dinner alone and to talk about what you guys like and dislike from each other and how can you guys improve on that.
Try it and also try to break routine at least once a week may be go to dinner or do different things as a couple (no kids) give time to yourselves. Good luck!
2007-10-05 16:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do get tired of him sometimes, and he gets tired of me sometimes. Doesn't mean we love each other any less, but that we're getting on each other's nerves.
That's why we have outside interests and friends, but we always end up in the same bed together at the end of the day. A day away sometimes isn't a bad thing.
Now, I'm not saying extra marital sex, or affairs, I'm saying go out of the house without the other one with you.
2007-10-05 16:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by Cheese Fairy - Mummified 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is isn't what if, it is when. There will come a time and probably many times that you are tired of your husband or tired or your marriage or sick of it. It happens to us all. But you work through those times, they don't last forever. You try to reconnect, you take a weekend away, you work on it.
2007-10-05 16:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took vows stating for better or worse. If you really are just tired of each other you both need to put some more effort into your marriage and you could turn it around. it is up to you. If it is really that bad why don't you get a divorce.
2007-10-05 16:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the merriage s a serious thing and just because you bord of him or tired of him they have to divorse, when the get married they promise to be together in the bad and good ones, so, they have to work it out.
That how my family is and i will like to do it the same way. That why am taking my time looking for the guy that am going to spend th rest of my life with.
2007-10-05 16:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by golondris_1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on a work trip or vacation seperately for a week. If you need it, make it two weeks. Stop spending all the single time together and you will never get sick of each other.
2007-10-05 16:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by terliuke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a commitment. It's normal for the marriage to experience highs and lows; but still, even if the marriage experiences a "low," you two should still stay together, because you both commited to each other on your wedding night.
2007-10-05 16:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do something about it. Start dating again, exercise together, take a dance class together, volunteer, go to church, get some new hobbies. Life is what you make it, get making it!
2007-10-05 22:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will try to work to rekindle the spark, or take some time away,you know like a hobby.
2007-10-05 16:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Versacetica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋