don't marry someone you are just so in love with you can't live without...be friends...enjoy time together...marry someone who is your friend...who you can talk to...believe me...in time...sex is only a few minutes...the rest of the time has to have something in it...and cuddling last for a while...but gets old...
2007-10-05 12:36:46
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answered by Daisy 6
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Never insult or try to hurt the others feelings, always remember the special days with more than a card or flowers, remember to let the other have their way if something means more to the other than it does to you. When buying a house do it on the larger income only if you plan on having children. Sex is important and needs to be a priority and should never a month go by without it.
Never prevent them from spending time with their family alone if you cant deal with them. It is your responsibility to defend your spouse from everyone.
Remember to have alone time for yourself, keep doing the things that make you who you are. You are marrying a certain package so out of love and respect for yourself and your partner try to stay healthy and attractive.
Never ever talk about them in any negative way with any friend or relative, that shows respect. Try to work out an argument before bed, understand that it is OK not to agree just as long as you come to some compromise that you can both live with.
Marriage is about the relationship and not the wedding. It isn't always easy or perfect but if you try it can be enduring, loving and fun. There is nothing better than to have someone in your corner who is not also very unafraid to let you know when you are wrong.
2007-10-05 08:54:00
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answered by New England Babe 7
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Remember, there is such a thing as being "too" honest"
Neve go to sleep on an argument.
Work as a team don't work to impress.
Don't forget to keep the romance alive, it's far too easy to get stuck in a routine!
Love each other
Don't forget to talk, share your hopes and fears...
2007-10-05 11:53:26
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answered by Lindy 5
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you need to realize that both of you will change through out your life and you have to learn to accept the changes and grow together . also, every day is not gonna be perfect, try to remember to walk in the others shoes, don't listen to gossip and never be jealous of the others accomplishments. one more thing, don't compare your relationship to others, it is yours and it is special. last but not least: the grass is never greener on the other side!!~â¥~
2007-10-05 11:22:41
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answered by nightmajic~♥~ 5
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love honesty trust and respect are the biggest things in a marriage. If you have those you should be fine, as long as you realize the wife is the boss lol
2007-10-05 09:01:21
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answered by Deedee 6
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communicate and compromise. always say i love you before you leave the house, don't go to bed angry, always say "i'm sorry". oh, and make sure you agree on finances and household chores!
most importantly - love like there's no tomorrow, be playful, and enjoy life.
2007-10-05 08:54:16
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answered by hh 6
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Always communicate with eachother.
Never go to bed angry.
And lie if she asks you if she looks fat in those jeans.
2007-10-05 08:44:10
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answered by astroeyes2000 6
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live about 3000 miles away from the mother-n-law!:)
2007-10-05 11:16:36
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answered by ....FED UP............ 7
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think that u r lovers for all times
2007-10-05 08:52:47
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answered by Anonymous
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find the name of a good divorce lawyer and keep it on speed-dial.
2007-10-05 09:05:23
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answered by amazon cat 3
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