My husband confronted a man about making me feel uncomfortable (flirting - staring, telling me I'm pretty, hanging around me). He says he didn't know he was making me feel like that, and acted like he was grateful my husband brought it to his attention and that his wife knows about his nature. The flirting has stopped, but, he keeps staring from a distance. Yesterday, he walked to the door to watch my husband and I walk away together. What is this??? Is he perverted? Should I be concerned? (This guy is not from work.)
2007-10-05 08:31:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your husband talked to him about it and he still does it, be cautious most guys will back off once another guy confronts him about something like that
2007-10-05 08:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This pretty much constitutes stalking soif you feel unsafe with this guy around, notify the authorities and charge him accordingly before something happens to you or someone else. It sounds like this guy is some sort of a professional stalker and knows exactly what to do if a male approaches him to keep himself from a good a.s whopping
2007-10-05 16:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably trying to figure out what your problem is. He might be wondering if your husband is overly jealous and controling since your husband was the one to confront him rather than YOU telling him that his flirtations made you feel uncomfortable. In otherwords don't YOU have a voice or do you expect everyone else to do your talking for you?
2007-10-05 16:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy is infatuated with you and your looks. He thinks you are hot. He needs to stare at you by not being so obvious. Maybe he can stare at you through the blinds when you arent looking. Maybe he can hide in the bushes and not be seen.
2007-10-05 15:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a nuisance, but if he beings to approach you than you can have a stay away order put in effect and if he violates that order by coming within 100 ft of you he goes to jail.
2007-10-05 15:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy could be harmless,,but, now-a-days you never know what's going on in people's heads,,this guy might have mental problem,,i went through a similiar situation and the police were called eventually,,and his family told the cops he had a mental problem,,so anyways be very careful,,stay close to your husband,,
2007-10-05 15:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A most possible candidate for a "stalker". Let your husband know and be aware of this everytime he does it.
2007-10-05 15:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by indy450 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possible stalker here. If it keeps up I would have hubby say something again and if that doesn't work adviod him at all cost.
2007-10-05 15:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told him this sometimes men just don't get it and if this fails kick him really hard
2007-10-05 15:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's just interested in you
2007-10-05 17:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋