So there is a girl that I like.We flirted pretty heavily for about 3 weeks, and then I accidently told her I liked her on facebook (we were talking about two completely different things lol).
She avoided me for a week, and when I tried to talk to her she told me "don't talk to me about anything except [this club we're both in]" She also told one of our mutual friends, and he was making jokes at my expense, i.e. her and a friend were talking about guys and she randomly said "oh Patrick? he's hot." I'm, not patrick, and my friend goes "poor [my name]"and the entire room bursts out laughing...
At the end of the week, she wrote an angry facebook message saying she can't believe I didn't talk to her at all even after exposing my feelings. And then tells me it's over. but SHE WAS AVOIDING ME!! How was I supposed to know "dont talk to me creep" means" talk to me right now."??
I also later find out she only dates catholic guys...I'm not catholic...
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2007-10-05 08:29:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Two days later we start talking frequently again, and on the fourth day after she tells me she just wants to be friends, she starts talking about how her ex-boyfriend's brother has been talking more to her, and that he "probably just wants a date for homecoming haha but i'm not going with him, im not like that."
So now I know she's available for homecoming. Why would she even bring it up so soon after she rejected me?? She KNOWS I can't make my feelings disappear this fast, I've told her that I hav little control about how I feel about her.
What is she thinking? She knows that's a sore wound, and she's either just hurting me or wants me to try again, but come on its not even been aweek since she last rejected me!!
HELP!!
2007-10-05 08:31:42 · update #1
Talk about other women you think are attractive. If you can't find any one else as attractive as her, talk about other women anyway!!! And then, get yourself a girlfriend! And for the record, do NOT tell them you like them over the internet!! GO OUT ON DATES WITH THEM!
If you don't get yourself another woman (or at least focus on another woman), she will toy the Hell out of your heart! because she knows she has that power over you!
And if you talk about other women, she might get a little jealous and start doing things to get your attention back on her.. DO NOT FALL FOR THEM! All she wants is your praise, not you!!
2007-10-05 09:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by word 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The men that say these things, do so, to imply that they are better than other men. Better than the women that chose men. These men are know-it-alls. They knew this and that about every single relationship that ended, when they really don't know as much about it as they claim they do. One thing about this is, that it gives me a chance to not have to wonder what kind of man he is that says such things, because I'm knowing it when he says this. I think having to live with a know it all is almost the same thing as being treated like trash unless you agree with him about everything. Your opinion won't matter, it's his way, or the highway. Too bull headed for me to want to live with.
2016-05-17 05:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's still in that crazy mode that all women go through at seventeen. She is big into head games. You should ignore her. Everything you do will be the 'wrong thing' and she's going to accost you about it. If you don't pay any attention to her, she's going to get into a towering rage at first over being ignored, but then she'll give up once she fails to get a reaction. I'm sorry you ran into someone like that. She's not even worth the worry.
2007-10-05 08:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like neither of you are ready for a relationship. You don't "accidentally" tell someone on facebook you have a crush on them. - You do it face to face. For her part, she sounds like she is stringing you along. She should not have been smearing your feelings in such a public and uncaring way. I'd get as far away from her as quickly as I can. And if she doesn't date guys that aren't catholic, and you aren't, then you have your answer! Drop her like a hot potato and have nothing more to do with her.
2007-10-05 08:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a very childish girl! Don't waist your time on her, let her find her catholic guy and you don't change the way you are, be nice and charming but let her know you are strong and very smart and don't have time for stupid games (cause she is just playing with your mind) So let her go and give yourself an opportunity to meet someone that will appreciate you and respect you no matter what!!!
2007-10-05 08:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally weird. Why can't women just be honest in matters such as this, guys to? Yeah, we don't want to hurt anyones feelings, but sometimes you just have to in order to get your piont across. No use 'sugar-coating' it to avoid tears. That just makes it worse in the long run. Ditch the b****. There are plenty of others.
2007-10-05 08:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm normally good at things like this, I help a lot of my guy friends with their girl problems, but this girl just confuses the hell out of me. I think it pretty much is over, idk what was going through her head, maybe by saying you were avoiding her she was trying not to look like the bad guy. Sorry, but its time to move on, find a girl thats a little less confused...
2007-10-05 08:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by lisalashes87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be playing hard to get or could be toying with you emotions...if you like her maybe press the envelope a little bit and say some nice things etc otherwise just ignore her and see what she does to gauge her interest and if shes interested she will keep coming back with things
2007-10-05 08:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by kariya92002 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm personally, her & her group arent worth knowing. seems like the guy taking the mick likes her too but obviously hasnt got the balls to tell her.
get out and find someone else, i think you will find she comes crawling or suffers from jealousy
you need to see the big picture, there are women all over the world .
i spent ages trying to find someone in my own town, but now im happily living with the love of my life, she lived in essex and i lived in leicester although she originally comes from blackpool lol
lifes full of twists and turns, why dont you turn the tables on her?
2007-10-05 08:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Paul S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow!!! um it seems she likes u but not in the boyfriend girlfriend type i guess but what she said and then talk to me it is her problem not yours or maybe she was just got mad at someone and didnt want to talk to any one.
maybe shell flirt with u more and maybe shell change her mind about catholic guys.
The best thing i can say is just go to her and say if u wanna talk then talk to me and if u dont then ok
2007-10-05 08:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by roxy_baby2007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋