he comes so freaking fast we can have sex 8 times in one day he still will come soooo fast i dont get it he says i feel so good he cant help it and i dont have a problem with him coming so fast but why does he?
2007-10-05 08:27:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
and hes 24 years old
2007-10-05 09:29:15 · update #1
You are probably a big turn on for him. Be happy.
2007-10-05 08:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by CBS Network fan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Premature ejaculation....common in 25-40% of men
How long has this been going on and how old is he? Because it happens most often in young men and eventually the begin to gain control of it. I'm guessing you're young, because when I first started having sex it was ALOT...now not so much. But anyways...he will eventually learn to control it.
Also, there's these condoms (please tell me you're using condoms) and they have a numbing lube on them. This makes your mans member tingle so he can still feel sensations, just not as strong. These were designed to make the man last longer. Also, ask him to start with some foreplay so you can get close and maybe end up going together.
If it's not because he's young and inexperienced he can seek medication for it. I'd make him do that so sex is a little more satisfying for both of you.
Cheers!
2007-10-05 15:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by InquiringMinds 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
basically different people come in different rates,
however coming too fast is a problem.
on the one hand it could be a sort of a medical thing something ur bf can't help but on the other hand coming is moslty mental.
if during sex ur bf will distract his mind from u and ur moaning he'll come a bit later.
thinking about disguting things is also a known technique.
so just remeber it's probably genetic or born but there are things u can do to slightly improve this experience.
2007-10-05 15:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by dope 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a problem with it?
His problem is premature ejaculation and it is psycological. The two of you need to practice slowing him down. You can do this maually (by hand, or whatever means you like), by taking him up to the edge and then stopping and letting him calm down. Once he learns how to stop himself from coming and relaxing, the two of you can have some real fun.
Short of that, double up on the condoms. Use some astro-glide. When he gets excited, do something painful to him. But seriously the only effective method is to practice taking him up to the edge and back down again.
PS: there is an endless amount of information on how to handle premature ejaculation. Google it...or yahoo search it (since we are on YA).
2007-10-05 15:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by DH1 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is very common for most young adult males. They have not develop the stamina to last very long with the opposite sex. There are many different creams and gel that can be used on the penis help desensitize it. Chloreciptic throat spray can also be used. Always allow the stuff to dry or you will be affected as well.
2007-10-06 02:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by ChaRiaLer 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He must be young.
He doesn't know how to control it yet.
Most men think of anything but sex in till its time to relive themselves.
Thats why you never ask a man what hes thinking about while
having sex, most of the time it work or his car.
2007-10-05 15:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by G 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to focus more on the foreplay and when he feels he is going to climax inside you stop and do some more foreplay until his body is used to not coming so soon
2007-10-05 15:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by whats my name again 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
GET ON IT BABE. he needs to see the doc for a facts pac and medication. my mate had it and he had to take pills for a few weeks now he said he can go for hours. It will get worse for him if he dosent go to the doc or pharmacy. Go for him[pharmacy]. poor dude. PS. If he drinks alot it aint help either.
2007-10-05 20:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
some guys just cant help it when it feels good, show is over and that's it....i really don't know but i have been in the same situation, but guys can control when they come. if he doesn't want to come all he has to do is just slow down and stop, that's what i was told...lol...
2007-10-05 15:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by ~I'm A Keepa ~ 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to learn how to have multiple orgasms, so that he can go as long as he wants. There's a great guide on this at mistermanpower.com
2007-10-05 15:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋