Don't I Deserve it?

Question

Honestly, I have worked hard all of my life, I busted my butt and got a promotion at my job. I starting to make really good money. I got married really young, and have one great boy. My wife is really starting to Nag me. I can't play my Xbox any more, or hang out with my friends. I have been having great conversions with this lady in my Office. She has been hinting that she would like something more. I think that I'm going for it.

Answer 1

Details on Monday....PLEASE?

Answer 2

You think you deserve to have an affair because you work hard? If that was the case, almost everybody would deserve to have an affair. You seem a bit one-sided to me; concentrating on what only you want and not considering your wifes feelings. She is nagging about the Xbox and hanging out with your friends because she wants you to place some attention her way; not with some girl in the office. Do what you have to do, but be prepared for the consequences.

Answer 3

don't make the biggest mistake of your life. Think about your son at the very least. Your penis will destroy your life if you let it. Your wife is like all women she wants time not things and working hard and busting your hump means nothing that is what your supposed to do. Thats life, you don't DESERVE anything,your not some great king or whatever. That what credit cards and banks tell people. Food on the table loving wife and kids even if they nag is a blessing trust me it not something God has to GIVE any of us. Talk to your wife about you feelings and why so much x box what does your boy do when you play xbox. When I play mine my little guy trys to play but is to little and gets board after 20 min and walks off. I waste 2 hours in front of that stupid thing and he misses out on dad time. X box is a pretty selfish toy brother go teach him to play ball I bet money your wife stop nagging so much. Good luck pray for self control and help with your wife's nagging.

Answer 4

And it will not be long before she is acting just like your wife. the reason for that is you can change the woman all you want as long as you remain immature, self centered and inconsiderate you will never have a good relationship. Why are you, a grown man spending time on Xbox when you have a wife that probably feels neglected and abandoned as you sit for hours and hours playing games on that stupid Xbox.

My husband got addicted to Playstation. He stayed on the thing for hours at a time and yelled at me whenever I asked him to please shut it down perhaps one evening a week so we could spend time together. He refused and I divorced him and found someone who is a man who knows what to do with a woman and not a half grown man-boy who knows how to play every video game there is. Your new chippie is not gonna like you being on the xbox or hanging with your friends either once all that great conversation stops. You might find a whole new woman right in your very own home if you shut down the video games and had some great conversations with your wife.

Answer 5

You have a wife, which means aside from all of the great things you've been doing at work, you have further responsibilities when you get off....it may seem unfair (though I don't know why) but that's the way it is because no one forced you to get married. You might wind up cheating, but no one is going to give you permission to do so, nor could they if they tried. Marriage is a sacred oath between you and your spouse and before God. You're either going to honor it, or you're not. You're not supposed to desert your partner when things start to improve financially for you both...you're not supposed to desert her at all. Nagging, huh? Yeah, I get that. You're not in prison, so you do need to establish some boundaries so you're not feeling "whipped"...there should be times you can visit your friends, and times when you can play your XBOX, but there should also be regular time you spend with her, and time you spend with her and your son. Getting married really young makes this seem significant, but truthfully, it's an adjustment no matter when you got married because our whole thinking has to change somewhat. But you can do this, and you can do this honorably. Just don't cheat....it's like sticking a knife into your own back; the repercussions are far reaching; more so than you can even imagine right now. You don't want to look into your son's eyes one day trying to explain to him why you hurt mommy and how sorry you are, do you? Stick to the higher ground, and keep enjoying the success you've earned. Don't let the world sidetrack you. Oh, before I forget...that's one of the great paradoxes of our time: nothing looks better to a single woman than a married man; they'll practically throw themselves at you. But once you're single again, that appeal dissolves into dust. Your ego won't let you believe me right now, because you're on top of your game, but I swear to you, it's true. You'll be happier if you can just take my word for it. Good luck.

Answer 6

How many hours do you put in at work?
How much quality time do you spend with your wife? Do you bring her some flowers or candy or something that makes her smile and shows you are thinking of her?
Do you take her out for the evening ?
Help her with housework or make dinner together?
My husband when he plays a video game tells me that he will play for so long and then come and do something with me.
Think about the little things that you can do for your wife and stop thinking of hurting her deeply. Make your marriage and family life happy and you will be happy.

Good luck!

Answer 7

You have what you deserve. A nagging wife that you created when some stipid chick started flirting in the office. Some man you are and my up-most wish in life is that foolish boys never get laid.

Answer 8

Maybe you might be part of the problem do you ever think about that? Look dude the last thing you want to do right now is cheat trust me uhmmm, don't make that mistake marriage is for better or worse it is both of your jobs to make it work. Take the time to reconnect with each other instead of looking outside you will be thankful you did that instaed of cheating.cheers

Answer 9

How old are you five. I hope your wife creams your a** because you really deserve it . If you really cared for your son I'd think you sit down and ask your wife why she's on your case maybe she'd like to spend some quality time with you. Instead you want to f***the first thing that shows you interest.

Answer 10

Why do you think you deserve that? WHy is your wife nagging you now? If you really want to see the other woman then have enough respect for your wife and child to get a divorce first.

Answer 11

she is a very sad lady to hit on a married man... you are a very sad man to gives hints to another woman

Basic rule: all women nag a man like you... that one girl you are thinking about "something more" will start to nag... you need to learn to be a better man ( father/husband ) to prevent the nagging

Good luck