Everything seemed fine in my life before a month or so ago. I am engaged to be married in a couple of years from now with a beautiful and loving girl. I started to get these unwanted images and thoughts in my head about all sorts of ****, including violence, unwanted sexual images, and a whole bunch of anxiety. Well what is really bugging me lately is that nowadays when I tell my fiance that I love her, i have this feeling of guilt, even sometimes when I touch her. But when I think of losing her or her being gone for along time, I get this feeling of anxiety and pain, like I know I would miss her alot. I have been seeing a phycologist and am seeing a phyciatrist next week, but with all of these thoughts I've never had before, could it be the depression messing with my mind? Because before I was diagnosed with it, I've never questioned my love for my fiance or our future. I guess I'm just so confused, I hate the idea of not loving her. She deserves to be loved and I want her to be happy
2007-10-05 08:06:10 · 9 answers · asked by jeremy_scherr531 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It totally sounds like the depression. Good for you for starting with therapy. Too many people rush to medicate these days- but it does sound like this could be something requiring medication. Don't stress too much about it. Talk to both your psychologist and the psychiatrist about it. They'll help you work through it.
2007-10-05 08:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 18:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good you are getting counseling but also get a good physical examination to see if there may be something wrong there. Has your diet changed during that time? It was found, for example, that too much sugar in some people can cause schizophrenia. make sure you are taking a good daily vitamin and get a physical exam to see if you have a physical reason for these things since you were fine until a month or so ago.
2007-10-05 08:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of pressure on Men these days to provide for their families. Could it be anxiety about if you're "good enough" for her? If it could be then she's already answered that for you. She said "yes" didn't she? It takes a great will to block out those images and thoughts of disturbing things you'd never act out. The therapy will help with that I'm sure. Good luck! Marriage is a big step.
2007-10-05 08:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by MSUGina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One do not believe all of what the doctors tell you. It sounds like after they put that idea in you head of being depress is when it started to mess with you mind. Either you want to be with her or not. I think you should talk to HER and tell her what is going on. You need to hear from her about your questions or concerns before you believe everything a doctor has to say. Good Luck.
2007-10-05 08:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by FullofQuestions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep going to counseling hun. Sounds like you could be remembering something bad that happened in your past. You're doing the right thing. Good luck, hun.
2007-10-05 08:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing the right thing by getting help.Just remember you are incontrol of your mind.Don't become the doctor's guinie pig.
2007-10-05 08:22:58 · answer #7 · answered by lollypop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up... it takes time.. sometimes months..
hang in there..
just be careful about the meds u get on..
do u no if the meds are causing these thoughts.. if so stop them, now....
good luck..
2007-10-05 08:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude get help!
2007-10-05 09:22:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋