I ask this because, I was in home depot the other day looking for bathroom caulk. As I was standing in this isle looking at the stuff on the shelf, two young black mne came near me and one said , " That ***** crazy ". I knew they were talking about me because they were standing in earshot and was talking loud enough for me to hear. I turned to look at them and they were no one I recognized. It bothers me because I get this a lot not from everybody, but black people in particular. Or I should say black men. I never have this problem with anyone else. So why is it that black men always make rude comments about me. And it is trully just black men. Is there something about me that they see, that I dont realize....maybe I am crazy and dont realize how crazy I am...I mean I dont carry myself in a crazy way. Or maybe it is my actions. I dont know. They say crazy people dont know that there crazy and people can tell by looking at someone if they are crazy. I dont know but my problem is........
2007-10-05 07:58:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I know I already asked this question, but I want a whole plethora of answers from different people..... thank you
2007-10-05 07:59:50 · update #1
LOOK IF YOU ARE UNDER THE AGE OF 25 AND WANT TO GIVE SILLY ANSWERS...DO NOT BOTHER POSTING TO MY QUESTION PLEASE. SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY. DONT GIVE ME NONE OF THAT WE ARE ALL CRAZY SHT
2007-10-05 08:09:09 · update #2
are you a curvy voluptuous women. some of my friends who are black men use that phrase towards women they find attractive. I'm not positive that is what is going on, but that's what it sounds like to me. i think he probably saw you and looked at his buddy and said that b is crazy, as in crazy hot. so Kudos to you don't feel self conscious about this, it's a compliment.
2007-10-05 08:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by irish398 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe "crazy" is the new "hot". Which would turn that phrase into "that ***** is hot". Or maybe you are just over analyzing it all. For all you know they could have been talking about the lady they ask to point them in the direction of the toilets.
And who cares what others think of you. As long as you dont hurt anyone, do, act, talk, dance, sing, shout, laugh, cry whenever and however you want. we are all crazy!
2007-10-05 08:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your case, i absolutely think you have no problems at all. i think the black men, they are just teasing you or something.(and besides crazy sometimes mean sexy) if you done nothing and say nothing at all. it is their problems. you must stand strong for yourself. you cant just change your opinion of yourself by any other people judgment.
some people they love to hurt the others by no reasons at all. they choose weak-looking people to bully (eg, single standing women, children, etc etc ) they are a bunch of loser. the only important is you are sure you never have this problems with friends or anyone else. why care about what the street people think?
2007-10-05 08:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by munserr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all crazy. The people you think are crazy are just in the wrong place, in the wrong time and around the wrong people.
2007-10-05 08:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are willing to entertain the thought that they might be crazy, then most likely they are not.
If they absolutely refuse to consider the possibility, they most certainly are.
2007-10-05 08:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe THEY'RE the crazies. one black dude walking in my direction and i was walking in his (but not in a straight line) and at about 6 feet away he told me 'yeah f*ck you' and i totally didn't do anything. to me, he looked a little off his rocker.
2007-10-05 08:04:39 · answer #6 · answered by Allergic To Eggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times has this happened?
2007-10-05 08:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by Random 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋