Supposedly I have a "bubbly" personality. And I make people laugh. And I don't care what people think about me. Something about my eyes, too...and the way I do my makeup.
I guess my real question is -
How can I make it stop without changing a whole lot?
I know it's weird, but I don't want a bunch of girls hitting on me or liking me all of the time, even though I'm a lesbian. I just want to be with my girlfriend.
Can you help me?
2007-10-05 06:47:50 · 12 answers · asked by i lick the sauce off of tacos 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I wouldn't change anything. Take it as a compliment. It's flattering, and there's nothing wrong with that. If women are hitting on you, tell them thanks, but no thanks. Let them know that you have a girlfriend that you are faithful to.
I can't help but to notice a pretty girl. If the girl is taken, then I don't push the issue.
2007-10-05 07:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and lesbians are attracted to same women. So take it or leave it, attraction that is! Also just talk to the Lesbians like they are humans. You don't have to be a girl friend of every guy or every Lesbian. You just have to be a woman which is often irritating I am told.
2007-10-05 06:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not yr eyes or yr makeup. its more yr personality that attracts them. Unless u really intend to change from a "bubbly" personality to a *sour* one, just be yrself,,,it'll prolly work out better in the long run. Tell all yr admirers that u already hv someone special & will not change partner anytime soon,,,it'll prolly get most of them from yr back. some of them prolly just wanna be yr friend,,nothing else. Best of luck & remember ,,,,being popular is better than being an outcast
2007-10-05 06:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will have just as much luck getting them to stop as bubbly and cute gals have keeping the praggish men away.
It is something you will have to deal with regardless if you are straight or gay. Maybe your significant other can step in and say something to them?????
2007-10-05 07:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear you are not interested. Maybe they take your bubbly presonality to be flirting. If someone does make a move... tell them you're not interested at all and would appreciate the comments and such to stop.
2007-10-05 06:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by u_fas_n8me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have actual, emotional feelings for a girl, it's most likely just hormones.
2016-05-17 04:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what 's your heart says
you have freedom of thinking you what ever your heart says!
so many lesbian and homo are enjoying there life and now it is except in the society,,
2007-10-05 07:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by M. R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wearing a gold ring on your wedding finger could help, though people might assume you are straight it is usually a deterrent.
2007-10-08 22:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by mcturtlegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u dress like a guy and lookkinda butch
do u have short fingernails?
do u like sports?
know how to change a tire?
talk loudly and burp and fart openly in public?
2007-10-05 06:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
Maybe you're hot. 2D
2007-10-05 07:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by 2D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋