life is becoming unbearable!! and suicided i cant commit 'cause i will go to hell forever if i do. I think i might have depression for like 4 yrs by now. What do u guyz do???
2007-10-05 05:58:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
my parents dont think i do, but they dont know me. They think it's just in my brain. And no one really cares for me. I am boring and annoying anyways.
2007-10-05 06:05:11 · update #1
and kitty, yeah i do talk to people. But online people. and also siblings. But they dont take me seriously. We all have issues, but i dont think theirs is as serious as mines.
2007-10-05 06:09:29 · update #2
Get someone to talk to. Realize suicide is selfish. It may help your pain but look at all those who love you, it will give them pain they will never get over.
2007-10-05 06:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by luvastupidblonde 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been depressed since childhood and I did see a psyciatrist when I was 8-12, they put me on Zoloft and unfortunately it did not seem to help me. I told my Mom that I was not happy with it and I was tired of going to see a Doctor every week so we stopped everything altogether. I was eased of my medication and stopped going to sessions. I feel that the place I was going to wasn't for me. Nobody understood me there and it was just a job for them. I continued on and I suffered from depression and anxiety for a really long time. Now when I look back I don't even know how I did it. A little over a year ago something happened in my life that pushed me so close to the edge. I was deeper in my depression than ever and having suicidal thoughts. I FINALLY picked up the phone and found a counselor. I should have done it so much sooner instead of waiting until I felt that bad. I actually love my counselor. Oddly enough she is the same age as me, 26, but she is very very good at what she does. She is very smart and it is more than just a job to her, she genuinly cares for her patients. At first I was against being put on any medication. I changed my mind a few months ago and now I take Lexapro and Buspar. So far so good. I still feel depressed, but it is so much better than it was and they are working with me to help me find med's that will work even better for me becuase everybody is different. Bottom line: Go see a counselor and get on some anti depressants. You don't have to suffer. I remember as a teen a lot of people didn't even know that I was feeling this way inside. I had a great mask. I smiled through all that I was feeling. I avoided contact with people as much as possible. I dreaded school and work. I grew very close to my online community, becuase it is "easier". I wish you luck. I hope I helped.
2007-10-05 07:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Missy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, drugs are never the answer for mental issues. They just cover it up and hide it.
I strongly suggest you speak with a school counselor at a minimum and a psychiatrist if possible. You need to sort some things out and get the "positive" ball rolling again. Life is full of ruts and it seems you have fallen into one.
Just remember, life is what you make it so please dont let temporary pain and problems drive you to the ultimate mistake, taking your life. 4, 5, 6 heck even 10 years is nothing compared to the 75 years you'll live on this earth. So even the absolute worst days are minute compared your life.
Please speak with a professional as soon as possible and if you need to talk some things out, you can email me through my "screen name" on here. Best wishes and stay strong.
2007-10-05 09:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by Phil M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It think it depends on the tolerance level or endurance capacity of the individuals concerned. Bearable or unbearable can be decided only after knowing the moral strength of that person. Moreover, here we discuss generally matters at universal level from a broader outlook. I do think individual cases can be decided with the help of a mentor of individual's own choice. In my case, I have a highly reliable mentor whom I frequently consult about my problems.
2016-05-17 04:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you sought help for this? I suggest that you go to your doctor and get diagnosed. Suicide is NOT the answer. After you are diagnosed seek counseling. Trust me. It's best to talk to a therapist. Medication alone cannot help you and it is VERY dangerous for depression to go untreated. If you have anymore questions, email me. I've had depression for about 10 years now so I have plenty of experience with what it feels like.
2007-10-05 06:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What ever making u depressed face it and get over it. Fight your problem. Find the right change u need in life that is making u depressed. Killing yourself won't fix your problem, all it will do is hurt everyone that cares for you. Do you want to hurt those who love u? Sometimes u need to tell the people that u love that u love them & they will tell u that back. Knowing that people Love, need & want u and there life should make u happy.
2007-10-05 06:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Four years now?!
You must have a chemical imbalance causing you to have depression.
look for something in life you enjoy to do, and focus on it.
I'm trying to get myself together, and out of my depression phases by writing.
Getting into a sport will make you exercise (giving you endorphins) and it's something to keep your mind on.
Try that?
2007-10-05 06:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by kiki Dee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cymbalta
2007-10-05 06:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zoloft
2007-10-05 06:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Rosie aka Rosie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good question is what do *you* do? What do you know you need to do about it, and how do the ppl around you help you to feel better or guide you in the right direction?
Do you talk to anyone about how you feel?
2007-10-05 06:07:41 · answer #10 · answered by Jeska J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋