He tells you you should wear heavy makeup when you leave the house because he doesnt want other guys to see your natural pretty face which is only for him....
OR
He tells you not to wear any makeup when you leave the house because he doesnt want you to paint your face to look pretty for other guys, only for him...
2007-10-05 04:44:04 · 19 answers · asked by other boy 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
Would you do any of these things for him?
2007-10-05 04:48:27 · update #1
dump him. It's your life not his
2007-10-05 04:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think both are selfish suggestions. She has a right to wear her makeup as she pleases. I think if someones significant other suggests something in a "nice" way like "You look beautiful with no makeup on!" (which is his way of saying that he'd rather see her wear less) that is okay. It's all in how you say/suggest it. Those two suggestions that you gave above makes me think the guy has some insecurity and jealous issues. He doesn't want other men to be attracted to his girlfriend? I don't know, my boyfriend likes to show me off in public, he's proud to have me on his arm.
2007-10-05 12:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this all depends on how it makes you feel, not how he feels! If wearing makeup makes you feel good about yourself and makes you feel pretty then you should wear how you feel comfortable- makeup is made to enhance natural beauty not to cover it up! Second depending on how you feel about your guy, i either suggest telling him to get over the makeup thing because this makes you feel good and he should want you to feel good and that you are only for him, he should let the other guys be jealous and he should feel pretty proud that he has you and not the other guys that oogle, or if he is intent on bringing your self-esteem down I say let him go because its not worth being dragged down because someone else is insecure.
2007-10-05 11:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by crystal_martinez_mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend is much more concerned with image than me and we live a province apart. So I humour the fact that he likes fancy makeup enough that I'll wear it sometimes, but I wouldn't do it all the time, for him. I trust him enough that if he said to wear lots of makeup, he has good cause.
That being said, if he said he didn't want other guys to see me I'd ask him to get his head checked, because it would be completely out of character for him and stupidly jealous.
2007-10-05 14:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Phalene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is none of his business to tell u how and when to wear makeup
its ur right as a woman to do whatever u want with it.
if he gives u those options tell him to stop being so controlling and obsessive
plus, im sure u dont make him put a mask over his head b4 he leaves the house so no other girl can look at him.
2007-10-05 11:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has never told me how to wear my makeup. He does enjoy when I do put on makeup, but he still tells me I'm beautiful, even without it on. :)
But if what you said above happened, I would get pretty frustrated. After all, no one likes a jealous boyfriend.
2007-10-05 12:02:52 · answer #6 · answered by myra l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he sounds like a control freak. Most women DO NOT put on makeup for other men. I know for myself, I put it on so I feel good about me. It makes me more confident. I think these 2 cop-outs are just ways of him trying to control you. Next he's going to be telling you to wear floor length skirts and turtle necks because "your body is for me to see only". PUUUULLEEAASSEE.
2007-10-05 11:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by bmoodyokc 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, this is CREEPY and shows that he is a control freak and insecure!!!
Insecurity and possessiveness are also qualities that domestic abusers have... so this would raise a huge red flag!
I would be outta there and I would tell him to get some therapy!
2007-10-05 11:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by rainydaysmile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id NEVER do that!!!!!!!! if your boyfriend is telling u what to do, and when to do it, i would leave the realationship. even if it seems that hes trying to help u, and it doesnt seem like hes a control freak.....he probably is.... this is how it starts...first telling u to wear/not wear makeup, then your clothes, ur hair, and soon he'll control eveything u do, like even when u leave the house, who to talk to ect. even if u "love" him and he says he loves u, i dont think this is exceptable behaviour . its ur chioce wat u do, not his. i suggest u talk to him about it, and make it CLEAR to him its up to YOU what u do or not. if he doesnt change LEAVE.
2007-10-05 12:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What on earth is this?
If my bf tried to do any of this crap, I'd either assume he's gone bonkers or I'd have to accept he's a jerk (and dump him on the spot!)
This is plain silly.
It's got a whiff of abuse and manipulation...
2007-10-05 11:57:07 · answer #10 · answered by Melkiha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have worn less make-up to make my boyfriend happy. But that was years ago...now I do what I think looks best.
2007-10-09 11:41:41 · answer #11 · answered by Kimberly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋