why do i have a peeing sensation during sex..?

Question

I mean whenever me and my boyfriend do it..it seems to hurt for like 20 seconds and then i feel like i really need to pee and then i actually do need to pee after Argh!...i have never climaxed during sex its so frustrating and yes we do have foreplay and i have enough fluids...what is wrong ?

Answer 1

when you doing it, his member is pushing against your bladder which feels like you have to pee..my advice to you is to try not to think about it too much and concentrate more on the sex...i always have to pee after also its a natural feeling..nothing is wrong

Answer 2

TIME WHERE is right. His penis is pressing on your urethra, which is on the top of the vagina about an inch inside it. First, make sure you empty your bladder immediately before sex. Second, try changing positions so the pressure is different, like doggie-style or you riding him. And peeing right after is an excellent thing anyway, since it will prevent you from getting a urinary tract infection that is sometimes called "honeymoon" cystitis.

As far as orgasm, a new position might help that, but for a lot of women, normal intercourse just won't do it. You can try either having your orgasm before you start to have sex or see if he can finger you while he is inside. Be patient. It will come with time, although statistics show that women are more likely to orgasm as they get older, up to a certain point.

Answer 3

Sometimes I fell like I have to pee during sex. But then after sex I get up and pee. I don't think you should worry about it during sex, I think maybe there is just pressure being put onto your bladder during sex, and that's why you have the feeling. So go on and have that orgasm, it makes sex soo much better for you if you do have the big O!f

Answer 4

I'm very excited to tell you, You may be a squirter. If you peed before sex, then it's not pee. Chances are, he's stimulating your Urethral Sponge or G-spot. This is a gland that works similar to how a tear duct works. It stays empty util it is stimulated, then it starts to fill with fluid. As it gets fuller, it also gets more stimulation. If you allow yourself, you may have a female ejaculation. Many women feel this sensation and are afraid they might pee, so never relax enough to let nature take its course. They are missing out on the pleasure and fun of female ejaculation. Also, a lot of men are downright fascinated and really turned on by this. Talk to your guy, and explain that you are going to try to relax and some fluid might come out, so he can be prepared. It might be a light trickle or it might be a gush. Have plenty of towels handy, and you might want to cover the bed in some extra blankets or towels, so you feel less afraid of making a mess. The fluid that comes out is not urine. It looks, smells and tastes different and has a different chemical makeup. So when you feel that sensation, relax, enjoy it, and let it build. When it feels very urgent, try bearing down like you're trying to push it out. It might help if he withdraws a little so he doesn't block the flow. If and when you squirt, it's very pleasurable, like a huge relief combined w/ sexual pleasure. You may squirt once, or many times. The good news is, if you relax and allow your body to do what it wants, you may find that coming to orgasm is much more likely. Here's a tip. Once you've squirted once or twice, try incorporating some clitoral stimulation while focusing on the internal sensations of him being inside you. There are lots of good books and webpages dedicated to this phenomenon. Google "female ejaculation". Good Luck.

Answer 5

That sensation is normal, especially when the technique is putting pressure on your bladder. Now you are also in the habit so your body is thinking of peeing whenever you have sex. With guys, it is worse because our urethra is used for both sex and pee so it can only handle one function at a time, so sometimes we have to take care of one function to be able to do the other. You might consider whether it is worth stopping the mood for a pee break.

Answer 6

Nothing's wrong. I have had the same issue. The urge to pee is usually the first reaction when your g-spot is stimulated. If you ride out this sensation for about a minute or so it will start feeling better and you may be able to climax.

Answer 7

Can you have an orgasm without having intercourse?
If so, then the answer is your B/F needs to learn to do to your body what makes that happen when you are masterbating. He can't read your mind, so it might expadite things if you show or tell or both him how to do it.....what feels good where and when. The urinating feeling is probably from the urethra being rubbed against during sex....and that is why you need to urinate right afterwards.

Answer 8

Pee before if you can if not its normal I have that feeling to not all girls climax during sex alot climax during foreplay cause its the cli* that is most sensitive

Answer 9

Make sure your bladder is empty before sex.

Use some lubricant - lots of lubricant makes you feel very sexy and relaxed.

Try a different position.

Practise getting an orgasm on your own through masturbation - once your body is used to having them it makes it easier to get one through having sex.

Also, get your boyfriend to insert his middle finger into your v*gina then press upwards and forwards onto what feels like a bone...this is your G-Spot. Once that's activated it's easier to get an orgasm.

Have Fun and G☺☺d Luck!

Answer 10

Sounds like you have TOO much fluids to start out with, if you take my meaning.

The easy answer? Pee before sex! It's puting pressure on your bladder, and if your bladder is somewhat full, you'll have to pee. That's why you should always go before you go, like a road-trip.