My cousin wants me to have it, then give it to her; for £1000 and she'll pay for me to be looked after. But I'm not sure.
2007-10-05 04:21:01 · 36 answers · asked by Twilighter 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I don't think you should sell a baby for money but let your cousin adopt the baby that would be best. Babies are not cars you can't sell them!!!!!!
2007-10-05 04:25:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are you playing games. You just answered a question on the same topic. And here what you said ( Listed Below)
You have three options:
- ave the baby and keep your own flesh
- Abortion H
- Have the baby adopted
One of these three makes you a murder your choose that your a murdered, I hope you'll be proud
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It seems like to me you are playing around here if you could answer some else questions about the same issue then it sounds like to me you know what your doing. You know at 14 it's going to be hard to have a baby and you had no business doing grown folks things. (If your really 14 like you say).And if your calling someone a murder for having an abortion. Then what do you call someone who willing to sell there baby for 1000$. It sounds like someone need to grow up and stop playing these games and if you are pregnant then you need some help big time.
2007-10-05 06:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jackquellyn w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER have an abortion there are families out here in this world that would love to have your baby, If you have an abortion you are committing murder and have you ever seen how they do abortions? you need to look that up on the internet and watch and you will think twice about even thinking of this. You need to go to your doc or planned parenthood and tell them you feel you cannot take care of this baby at 14 and you want your baby to go to a family who would be able to financially and capable taking care of this baby. As for the cousin this doesn't sound right i mean people pay lots more to adopt a baby, it sounds like she is saying Oh i will give you a 1000 for your baby, umm this baby isn't a car or anything this is a human being. Please think twice about abortion you need to give it up for adoption.
2007-10-05 04:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by catbri34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, honey--- you are 14-- you should be playing with Barbies, not boys. Second of all, being pregnant is a blessing. But 14 year old girls need their mommy, not to be one. If your cousin will give your baby a good home and take care of your medical bills, I say this sounds like a good deal. And make sure that as soon as you have the baby, your doctor puts you on birth control pills if you intend to keep having sex before you are older and married. Abstinence is the best advice I can give you for the future.
2007-10-05 04:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Joy L 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are several things you need to consider.
First, you are still young and your body is not totally developed yet. This is why women's hips widen as we mature...to prepare for birth. Having a baby should be a wonderful experience, but sadly, I don't see that for you at this point.
Next, if you allow your cousin (you don't say how old she is or if she is unable to conceived, herself) to adopt, you have a whole new set of problems in the future.
You are going to have to watch the child,,,your child...grow up calling another woman Mom. You will have no say-so in its up-bringing. Your cousin will be the one to go to school on Parents Day, she will be the Mother of the Bride, she will have your grandchildren and you will be just a relative. This may hurt. You must consider that eventually he/she may find out, not only about being adopted, but that you are their mother and didn't want them...and there is a good chance that is going to be difficult for everyone...especially you.
Now, adoption is definitely an option, but I suggest you seek out a reputable adoption agency. It should be anonymous.
Another answer, of course, is abortion, and to go on with your life. There is nothing wrong with this.
There is time to have babies when you will want one and enjoy every moment of your pregnancy, giving birth, raising your child. Now is not that time.
But you need to make that decision soon. If you pass your first trimester your chance to abort will be eliminated.
Whatever your decision, I wish you luck and happiness.
2007-10-05 04:49:00 · answer #5 · answered by LaVere B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well do you want the baby? You really need to think about this. Don't let her talk you into doing anything you don't want to do. How old is your cousin? I would talk to your mom and see what she says. If your cousin can give your baby a better life since you are so young then i might consider it. It would be extremely hard to give away. I'm So glad that you aren't going to get an abortion. THat is being very responsible. You need to give your child the best life you can, no matter what that means. I hope you really weight your options and think about what would be BEST FOR YOUR BABY.
2007-10-05 04:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Christen T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An honest answer from me would be that I would have an abortion... at 14. Now I don't believe it should be used at birth control but that's what I would have done. Although, the other option is adoption. I really don't think you should keep the baby, you are a child yourself and you really need to be one right now (which means not having sex until you are responsible enough to deal with the consequences) and grow into a mature adult before you raise another human. Good luck to you.
2007-10-05 09:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Stacia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abortion isn't the way to GO, the Lord bless you with it so you keep it, you lay down for it and made it, I am ttc#1 for 4 years now and its hurting me to no that a younger girl like you having a baby u dnt want to keep, kepp your child who knows that child might be the one who find the cure dor AIDS, that child might be the president of the United States, that child can make you to be a better person, dnt sell your child because you'll regret it, just talk to your parents and let them no whats going on and try and get some help form them, you might be young but its not the end of the world
2007-10-05 05:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but it really is a personal decision. Obviously, you are given a chance to help your cousin and bring a new life into this world, which, no matter how tentative you about having a baby is amazing when you finally do. But, you need to make sure that you will be able to take care of the baby the first 10 months of it's life - i.e. in the womb - and you also have to make sure that if you do give your cousin your baby you are able to fully let go. Good luck.
2007-10-05 04:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by Laura L 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, seems to me like you've got 2 choices - take responsibilty for your actions and have the baby and do everything in your power to give that baby a good life or put the baby up for adoption. There are alot of loving couples who would love to have a baby to call their own. You can't sell your baby. That's illegal. You are too young to be raising a child on your own so I would suggest you give it up for adoption. Give your baby a chance to have a good life. After you have the baby, get on birth control or stop having sex. You've got plenty of time to have children - when you are old enough and mature enough to handle it. Finish school, go to college, and get married before you get pregnant again. Don't be in such a hurry to grow up. Time goes by quick. Enjoy being young while you can.
2007-10-05 07:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by angelamc31 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot sell a baby for money - that is firstly wrong and secondly that child will find out one day and how would you feel?!?! I think rather give the child up for adoption. Dont have an abortion. It is so cruel - you amde the baby so live with it. There are so many people especially on this site that are dying to have a baby - i would say you are very lucky so dont mess it up. Rather give her/him up for adoption and live your life because i can see that you are not able to look after the kid at your age. take care
2007-10-05 05:05:00 · answer #11 · answered by girlygirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋