Is having the travel bug normal? All of the sudden, I have an urge to go to Hawaii for a couple weeks.
I'm really hurt over what the woman I thought loved me has just done and I need to get away. Should I or should I wait until things go back to normal for a little bit?
Am I running away??
2007-10-05 04:03:04 · 16 answers · asked by Dr. E. Bunny A.K.A. Andy. 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It's okay. You can't truly love someone, unless they love you back. I think Hawaii is out of the question. I am guessing you just want to get away from everything for a week or two, so I suggest explore around your area, and make new friends. Go shopping, get a puppy, do something to get your mind off her. Whatever you do, don't listen to any music related to love or break-ups, because it will just make it worse. Live like it's the last day of your life. Trust me, if you get your mind off her, then you will feel a heck of a lot better. Next time you see her, tell her you're okay without her. Don't give her a second chance, because you are way better than that. I wouldn't consider what you are doing is running away, but getting away from the ones you love for a break of love. Give someone else a chance. You deserve better than someone who leaves you, and I am sure she will realize that that someone, is not nearly as close to as spec ail as you. Don't worry, you'll get over her, but she won't get over you. Love is hard, but it's a 50/50 chance you should be willing to take, and you did, it just didn't work out as well as you thought it would, but trust me, it will, sometime in your life. Just wait for it!
2007-10-05 05:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dr. E. Bunny, I don't think it's running away, I think it's a much needed...much deserved vacation after a very emotional and shocking week! You need to get away and take some time for yourself. Do whatever your mind, body and spirit is telling you to do and you can't go wrong. Relax, rest, regroup and come back when you're ready. I think this is just what you need. Have a great time...now go pack your bags :). Bon Voyage!
2007-10-05 23:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Gretel's Bread Crumbs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nahhh... you're not running away! Your looking to do something that feels good and that will help to ease the pain. Log on to a travel website and book a vacation ASAP or hope in the car and drive somewhere this weekend (somewhere you haven't been with her!)
Sorry 'bout your heart breaking, too. That just plain rots!
2007-10-05 11:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Durga sings the classics 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Bunny, this is sad.
The trip is not about you running away. The trip is a need to get away from the familiar surroundings. You need to get away from the places and things that make you think about her. Traveling gives you an opportunity to see yourself in a new way. Changing the scenery changes your knowledge and perceptions about yourself.
2007-10-05 22:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by ☎ Rotary Dial ☎ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GO. I was going for two weeks after an ltr ended - I ended up staying three months. Best time of my life. Don't even pack. Just buy some shorts and a bathing suit when you get there. I'm so sorry this happened to you. She was obviously an idiot to lose you. â¥
2007-10-05 11:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Cherry♥ 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to want to get the heck out of town. After my divorce I felt the same way. If you need to take some time, do it. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health.
2007-10-05 11:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can never run from you're pain as it is a part of you it will always know where you are hiding. I hate when people say "Oh it is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all" I say try it sometime.
2007-10-05 11:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you just need a break, and you deserve it. Go to Hawaii and clear your head.
Best of luck!
2007-10-05 11:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by xxon_23 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A change of scenery would probably do some good. Just don't do anything crazy. Enjoy!!
2007-10-06 13:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by culooking2007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to clear you head. YOur not running, your discovering. It's fine, Hawii would def. help you cope with being without.
2007-10-05 11:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋