My girlfriend and I had sex awhile back and I used the pull out method. I had to *** on her stomach.
Well, NOW she is pregnant. I asked her how it could be, and she said that she took some of the *** on her belly and quickly fingered herself with it. Which is weird and tricky actually.
Could that be possible?
I thought sperm dies if its outside a body? If sperm is outside the body for a few seconds and is then entered back into the vagina, does the sperm still live longer? Please help. I am stumped here!
2007-10-05 03:56:11 · 12 answers · asked by Daniel L 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First of all, even without her weird "tricky" maneuver, she could still have gotten pregnant. Even before you ejaculate, your penis releases what is commonly called "pre-***," which does contain sperm.
Also, while sperm does die eventually when it's outside the body, it doesn't die instantly. When my husband had to have a semin analysis, we just had to get his "sample" to the lab within an hour (keeping it warm in the meantime).
Any time you put your penis in a woman's vagina, even if you are both using birth control, she COULD get pregnant.
2007-10-05 04:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good grief......how many times to people have to be told that the "pull-out method" DOES NOT WORK!!!!!!! The is pre-*** that can get her pregnant. The sperm does not die just because it is outside of the body. After the baby is born, start using condoms and get her on the pill.
On another note, had you two talked about what would happen if she got pregnant? Are you ready to be a parent? If you were not ready and she knew it, then you need to sit down and asked her why she did it. Sounds like she may be trying to trap you.
I hope everything works out for the two of you. Good luck.
2007-10-05 04:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by angelamc31 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"pulling out" does not always stop you becoming pregnant. During sex sperm leakes from the penis and that can cause you to fall pregnant.
Sperm can live outside the body for a short while, and it is possible that she got pregnant by putting some inside of her - but highly unlikely.
I would say it was more to do with not using any form of contraception and using the "pull out" method.
2007-10-05 04:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by not2posh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes sperm lives outside the body. I would think you would be more interested in your girlfriends reason for getting herself pregnant, which is possible, but the withdrawal method is sooo not safe for preventing pregnancy. And you should be focused on how you are going to deal with her, and the new life you both have created. You have way more things to think about aside from basic biology. That is something you should have studied before you started fooling around, she did her homework.
2007-10-05 04:08:18 · answer #4 · answered by frameliner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a total myth that sperm dies when it hits air. It is highly possible that she could have fallen pregnant doing that. People who dont know this kind of stuff are really not fit to be having sex. But anyway forget how it happened. Enjoy the baby, you may find it to be a blessing in disguise.
2007-10-05 05:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that method is not reliable form of birth control some sperm always make it inside the vagina whether you notice or not. I'd actually think sperm slipping in before you actually pulled out is how she got pregnnat and not the way she calimed.
2007-10-05 04:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by anjelahoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could of
I would say she got pregnant with pre sperm or sperm that got out before you fully ***** on her belly
Sperm does come out before you fully ****
I would say, that is how she got pregnant
Since both are possibly, it does matter how. You Will never know
Congratulations on becoming a father
Please remember to not have sex without a condom, if you do not want anther child
2007-10-05 04:01:20 · answer #7 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite some lubes kill or a minimum of harm sperm. Preseed is the lube that rather facilitates sperm. I even have heard and study many ladies people asserting that they have got been given pregnant v at as quickly as whilst they started making use of it. desire that facilitates.
2017-01-03 04:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, if ur gf did that then it would have to be when the sperm was still alive. it doesnt die as soon as it hits the air. sounds like she wanted to get pg. sperm can live in a woman's vigina 5-7 days.
2007-10-05 04:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of the life and survival of sperm, the pull out method does not prevent pregnancy, it just makes it a little harder to get pregnant.
Penis in, baby out. Its not hard to understand. Just because you didnt *** inside doesnt mean that your eager little swimmers didnt jump the gun. Precum can make many a baby.
2007-10-05 03:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋