I've been exchanging e-mails with someone for a little over 2 years now. Starting with October 3rd this year, when I tried to send him an e-mail, mailer demon sent me a notice saying his email address was disabled. His profile is no longer there either. I think I will never see him again and this drives me crazy. I've been trying since that day October 3rd to send him messages, they just keep bouncing back, I think he did that himself, I don't know why... We've never met in person, ever...
I think I am going crazy, please help!!
2007-10-04 21:51:09 · 14 answers · asked by Analyst 7 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I knew there was nothing to expect from such a 'relationship', yet I have even been crying!!
2007-10-04 21:54:11 · update #1
Somehow I have the feeling he doesn't want to continue talking to me anymore...
2007-10-04 22:19:44 · update #2
If it is so, I don't think there's any use to keep looking for him. This is why I took no action to report to yahoo his disabled email address...
2007-10-04 22:21:07 · update #3
Well, first off, you are not going crazy. Whether he did this on purpose or not, you forged a relationship with this person and it hurt to know that you may never hear from this person again. Don't bother sending e-mails becuase if the account is deleted it is gone...I am sorry, but that is the fact of the matter. You have a few choices. If you have this persons name, you can try and trace them down, but that can be seen as stalking. Secondly, you can start to try to get over this person. Or lastly, you can stay in denial and keep trying this e-mail. I am sorry if it hrts that I say that is denial, but it is. As hard as it is the best advice I can give is to try and get over this person as hard as that will be, and anyone who has suffered hearbreak, including me, understands where you are comming from and understand and feel for you. I am sorry for what happened, but I would try and get over this person and if this person wats to contact you they still have your e-mail and will contact you. If they don't want to stay in contact, and I know how crappy that sounds and must feel, it is better that you know now instead of later. And if you really truely believe he wants to stay in touch despite not contacting you, maybe he will, maybe he won't, but you can always try to send him an e-mail once in a while to see if the profile was reactivated, but Iwouldn't keep sending them and seeting yourself up for disappointment. I am sorry if that is not what you wanted to hear, but I truely believe that is what will be best for you in the long haul. Good luck, you will feel better eventually ... HANG IN THERE!
2007-10-04 22:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not going crazy, well I don't think you are, there are many reasons this can happen, if he changed servers, you are not allowed to use the same email address, and sometimes the crossover can take between 1 and 2 weeks, I know this because both my best friend and brother have recently changed to Optus from Telstra, and are going from dial up to broadband etc., another thing could be his computer is broken and in the shop, this has also happened to me with my brother in law, I rang him and told me sorry, computers broken and is at the repairers, and it was sending my mail back too. Another thing could be if he's like me and using and old system (I'm still on windows 98 and yes its slow) and they introduce a new programme that you must download to continue and you don't have enough space to download it, it won't let you into that account, I have just had to delete my MSN Messenger because of this same problem, so please don't stress out, give it some time and see what happens. Anyway, I hope this helps you, Goodluck!!!
2007-10-04 22:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie's angel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure! The universe (and its residences) is definitely staggering. I wager in case you repost your question on the Physics talk board, you may get solutions that placed your questions extra into attitude. i think of the physicists have unquestionably theories to respond to questions mutually with "while the airborne dirt and dust and planets and all that ends does the universe? or does the blackness only shop goin on and on?" As for, "Why is there a Universe?" you will could regulate this question somewhat; in any different case, the physics people will clarify the "enormous Bang thought," which, i'm assuming (undesirable undesirable undesirable), isn't the respond you prefer. So, you may ask, "Is there shrink to the universe? And if it extends infinitely, is there a component the place atomic rely/potential ceases to exist? or some thing to that result. As for G/god, there is not any necessity for G/god to exist and for there to be a Universe. G/god, in accordance to three, created the universe. yet this concept is only adequate for the respond 'Why is there a Universe?'--not mandatory; yet, no one, as of latest, has given a mandatory answer to the question 'Why is there a Universe?' according to threat sooner or later you will supply us this answer.
2016-10-06 03:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you invest a lot of emotion in any relationship, when it fails or falters. I think we can all relate to your feelings of frustration that this has suddenly happened.
This situation probably has a rational explanation and your friend is equally distraught by his inability to contact you.
The only thing I can suggest, is that you try to get over it - he may have his reasons (if he was in fact responsible for it) but you are left feeling down.
Try to find other friends to confide in and have a wonderful life - remember there are lots of people of your own age group out there on the Internet who can chat with you
You never know, he might yet get in touch it's a wee bit early to say that he has just stopped communicating entirely
2007-10-04 22:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by cornflake#1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh that sucks! I'm crossing my fingers for you that he's just had some kind of yahoo issue ... you know how that goes! I have a friend who, for a long time, when I would e-mail Him, the emails would get lost (which, I know, is slightly different) and he would never get them so he thought I was ignoring him when really I wasn't. Anyway, I just told you that story to say that Yahoo has issues sometimes so don't let it get you down.
2007-10-05 01:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Cinnibuns 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's entirely normal to miss a guy you have been speaking to a long time, if you want to track him donw, google huis email address and it will bring uyp most of the sites he registered for with it and maybe you can sign up and message via onsite PM. Good luck. I've been in similar situations.
2007-10-04 21:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by whor_gasm_addict 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
on the Internet people hide what they are. so you really don't know this person like you think.
Internet relationships are a bad thing to get involved with.
but if you need someone to talk to ,, boy do I have some story's.
2007-10-04 22:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by dumaguetejoe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are not going crazy unless you are consuming animal feces at that point grab a bottle of ketchup and go nuts. if you have not reached said point, relize the individual you have spoken to on the net no longer wishes to communicate with you or has lost thier account. deal with it and find a new friend, perferably a living breathing one which you can make physical contact with. and then share your new obsession of consuming animal feces and ketchup, with any luck your new comrade will share his/her obession of consuming large quanities of over the counter cough medicine with bendy straws.
2007-10-04 21:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, that´s the thing with the internet, you´ll never get to know people. I can tell you a million reasons why he did it, but maybe he will contact you again. Who knows?
2007-10-04 21:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by Ambar4me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait..i cant even understand u question y would u be going crazy maby he got a new email address or something..i think u put this in the wrong section my dear..try the computr section
2007-10-04 22:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by Est.1992 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋