I want to die?

Question

So I met the girl of my dreams in class. Caught her looking at me and smiling at me, and I thought "holy ****, seriously" so over the next two weeks or so,I am shy, i get the nerve to talk to her. Nervous, I sound retarded, but I manage to make her smile. Four days later, nervous again, I talk to her and get her number. She gives me her number, and I called the next day.No answer. Called again a few days later, nothing. Now when I see her, she ignores me! it hurts so much, I want to die. I can't stop tjhinking of her. Why would she do that to me? Especially since she knows I am shy and nervous and stuff? this sucks. And I have been through the whole breakup thing a couple times, but this hurts more than anything i ever been through my whole life. I don't know what to do, I have to go to class 3 days a week with her, but i have been ditching classes to avoid seeing her ignore me. Why is she doing this to me? I wanna die so bad, but all I can do is type this..What can i do? Help me.

Answer 1

You are young - there will be many 'girls of your dreams' coming in and out of your life .. that's a fact - we've all been through it.
Teenager or young love is the worst, believe me.

Love hurts - no one said it didn't.

Relax and just have fun, concentrate on your studies and whatever happens, happens


Good Luck ..and wish you well

Answer 2

Hey,
Dont feel so down, i know excatly how you feel as I've been through the same kind of thing before (not all that long ago mind you). Although it was no condolence for me at that age I really regret wasting my time feeling sorry for myself (which sounds like how your feeling at this point in time). You've got to understand that you may feel that this person is the love of your life but in actuality its more than likely that shes not. I know this is excatly what you dont want to hear and hate me for saying this but its the truth. I hated hearing it and felt that the people telling me this were wrong but love is blind.
Also understand that your education is important. You've really got to keep going to class. You feel she's ignoring you? You think she thinks you're a loser right? well if you dont attend class due to this she'll think that even more. Be sure to keep going to class. As for her.. in my experience it's more than likely that she's been told by one of your ex's that you're a 'insert bad word here'. My advice, try to let her know that although your not sure why shes been avoiding you really wish she wouldnt. Tell her that if she just gave you a chance you'd show her what kind of person you really are. And for your last problem, shyness... tell her all this in a note. Make sure she gets it. And when you get your chance to talk to her let make sure its alone. Its harder with your friends or her friends around as you'll feel pressured. Well the best of luck mate, I hope no matter the outcome you'll feel better by the end of it. Good luck friend =D

Answer 3

You are a teenager and teenagers go through horrendous roller coasters of emotion during their high school years. You've got to think logically and realize that if she was the girl of your dreams, would she really diss you in such a bit--y way like she did? Move on, she is an atonomon of the system. In ten years, you will be embarrassed that you even gave her a second thought. She will probably grow up to marry some gerk who cheats on her and is conceited. All the while, she could've had you. Her loss. Get over it.

Answer 4

Go ahead and confront her. Go to your class and ask her why she did that. I know it´s hard, but I promise, what ever the answer she gives you; you´ll feel a lot better than you feel right now. Besides, it could be all a misunderstanding, what if someone said something about you.... etc.
You´ll never know if you don´t ask her. If she says something bad, she will be the *****, not you. So in any case you can´t loose if you ask her.
Don´t get too nervous around her, she´s just a person, but you wouldn´t know what kind of person she is until you confront her.

Answer 5

You want the part of you that is hurting to die. Some people are simply very cruel like that, but you need to talk to her to find out if she is ignoring for her own enjoyment or if it's something else. If the feeling persists, get support from friends or family; it can be very serious business.

If it doesn't work out between you, then you know that she was not meant to be.

Answer 6

Girls are shy too. maybe she was not at home when you tried to call. She gave you her number, so keep trying. Maybe you can think of something to do together that you can ask her to spend some time with you? Like, your mother or sister has a birthday coming up and you could ask her to help you pick out a gift for them. (Girls love to shop, and give advice). You could ask her to go with you or meet you at a specific shopping place at a specific time to give you her advice.

Another thing would be to ask her to go to a movie, or for a walk, or for a pizza. just get some specific plan in mind and go for it! (Do not say "would you like to go out sometime?" because that is too open ended with no specific thing to do in mind. You need to know what you want to do. You could go skating, or to a beach, or almost anything... just have something you want to ask her to do.

If you know she is smart and you need help with homework, that is a good one, too.

Answer 7

Maybe she is shy too. Maybe she doesn't know what to say to you. Why not try talking to her a little in class? Then at least you'll know if she likes you or not...
Remeber, life is about losses and disappointments [personal experience].

Answer 8

Aw, I'm so sorry. I really hate these situations when someone you really like has to knock down your confidence.
Just try to ignore her yourself. She's so not worth your energy, you'll find someone better than her who knows how to treat people.
Don't ditch class though. You don't want to fail because of her.

Answer 9

your braver that me i've liked someone for nearly 4 years! and have only just got the courage to say hi when me friends are around that talk to him!

i wouldnt worry about it she probably is playing hard to get cool off and ingnore her she will soon be interested again trust me

Answer 10

You dont want to die.....just be straight up and tell her that you have been trying to call her....maybe shes ignoring you because she likes you.....try talking to her again ok....and let me know how it works out.....