We've been together for a year and I'm a broke college student and he makes about $9,000 a month and I'm a broke student struggling to pay bills. If he doesn't help me out does that mean he doesn't love me?
2007-10-04 17:06:28 · 26 answers · asked by hanna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he makes that money, find one who makes less but buy you chocolates and flowers and take you to dinner.
;-)
2007-10-04 17:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Pazlevaaoamor 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Hi. I've always believed that it doesn't take possessions to make a relationship happy or to prove that someone loves you. It all comes down to the way they treat you. But, in your situation where you are a struggling student and he is earning quite a substantial amount of money, it wouldn't hurt for him to help you out every now and then. I'm sure that you do the best you can for him!
2007-10-04 17:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by happiness 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may love you in his own way. He sounds like a tight wad. He''s selfish and greedy. If he cared for your well being he would help you out, especially if you've been dating him for a year and he makes that much money in a month... If he continues not to help you some then leave his *** You don't want that kind of person. And it's not much of him helping you it's if he at least offered to help you. But he doesn't even do that for you. Good luck!!
2007-10-04 17:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You guys aren't a married couple, so you should be taking your responsibilities on your own. Don't rely on him to help you pay your bills. I'm sure he still loves you. Don't let money come in between your relationship. However, if he did care a lot about you, he would have offered to help you out a bit.
2007-10-04 17:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-14 08:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he isn,t capable of loving anyone totally.Male or female if someone you know is less fortunate the decent thing to do is lend a hand when needed.He hasn,t even offered to help you out a bit and pay him back.Why is it so many people will give hundreds of dollars to charity and not even know to who it goes to.And they won,t even help out their own families or friends or people they do know?
2007-10-04 17:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by warriorbabe 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your a little college cutie giving him sexual pleasure wheneven he likes. Right?
He's getting what he wants without having to do anything for you.
Shut off the sex and see what happens.
Don't allow yourself to be used without getting something you want out of it too.
Best Wishes
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2007-10-04 17:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by Fade To Black 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just think that affection is enough ..You know the emotional,mental and physical connection.. Tell him how you feel that you wouldn't mind him showing his love in other ways.. Hint things out to him too..He'll get the vibe!!
2007-10-04 17:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by sweety_8402 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry so much about money. Especially his money. Maybe he's saving. There is nothing wrong with that. You basing your perception of his love on cash flow makes me really uncomfortable for you.
2007-10-04 17:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you think love is based on money and gifts then of course he doesn't love you.
But seeing how it isn't, you need to get over your materialistic needs and stop expecting him to bail you out. You're an adult, learn to act like one and treat your boyfriend with a little more respect instead of as a benefactor. There's nothing worse than a money-grubbing, materialistic woman expecting her man to take care of her.
2007-10-04 17:09:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Does he know you're struggling or have you tried to hide that? Maybe he doesn't want you to become dependent on him or something... hard to tell, but I know that some guys don't even think of certain things like that unless you basically spell it out for them.
2007-10-04 17:10:17 · answer #11 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋