am i a loser? i did four years marines, im a union ironworker make goodmoney,i travel, but i got no girl,?

Question

i got about 10000 saved n i keep an apartment in texas, am i a loser?cause im not married n have no kids,

Answer 1

What you mentioned are things you have, not who you are. Look yourself in the mirror, then tell us what type of person you think you are. If you can see yourself as nothing more than what you have, then I guess girls can't see that as well.

I just want to add, my girl loves me despite me not having a house or 10000 in my bank; so girls are not that shallow as to be drawn to all the materialistic things (some are). But I know as a fact that you dun even need a car to get dates. So please work on who you are behind that list. I am sure you find one soon if you can just see yourself first.

Answer 2

Diet is such an ungly word. Most people associate it with eating lettice twoce a day and having a slim fast. This is just wrong and unhealthy. I have been in the Army for 4 years and my best advice for you is two fold. 1) Run. Run. Run. It is the best workout for burning fat and getting in shape in your cardio system. Believe me, Marines run ALL THE TIME. Doing so ahead of boot camp just makes life that much easier for you. 2) Eat healthy, small meals 5-6 times a day. What does that mean? Don't eat a b-fast of eggs, toast, cereal, banana, OJ, milk. Yes b-fast is important but by no means the most important of the day. Everytime you eat your metabolisum goes up. Your body needs to process that food. No matter how much thier is. It's working. Turn it to your benefit. I generally eat a protien fruit smoothie for b-fast. OJ, strawberries, blueberries and a banana. Mixed up with some fruit flavored protein. Then I eat a decent portion of nuts about 2 hours later. Then a healthy lunch like a chicken salad. Then some crackers about 2 hours later. Finally a small dinner of whatever. Like steak, mashed potatoes etc. NEVER eat within 3 hours of bed, no matter how hungary you feel. Make sure you take a multi-vitamin and drink water constantly. I dunno who said 8 glasses a day, but about a gallon is spot on for an active lifestyle like the Military. Just take a water thing where ever you go and fill it and drink all the time. Military specific excersises are: situps, crunches, push-ups, pull-ups, running and minimal weight lifting for females. These are things you will do at least an hour a day, 5 days a week. Get in the habbit now. set aside 45 min or so right after you wake up and before b-fast. That's when most PT is done anyways. Even a month of this routine will put you far ahead of most of your peers and make your life so much easier. Don't look to lose weight quick. It's not healthy either. Give yourself obtainable goals with your eating plan and excersise routine. Start with 6-8lbs the first month (you will retain more water weight in your first month as your body starts to realize how to handle more fluids). Then another 8-10 the next month. Then back down to 6-8. In no time you will see that you surpass your goals that way, lose weight steadily and healthly.

Answer 3

You have a good job,money in the bank and travel-makes it hard to find a girl,but it's not impossible.
On the other hand,you might be one of those men destined not to meet a girl or get married.
With the current marriage laws,marriage is just another word for shacking up legally.

Answer 4

Most real women dont get involved with a man for money do you try to flaunt money to women because that is a total turn off. And being in the marines makes you hot.. Just keep doing what your doing the right women will come along eventually..

Answer 5

A marine with a good job and savings and no child support payments coming off doesn't sound like a loser to me.

Wait a sec! I get it! You're ADVERTISING that you a reliable and responsible and worthwhile person, hoping that a woman will see your question and contact you.

You sly devil! God help America's enemies if all marines are as cunning as you.

Answer 6

men age have no limit or body "clock".

I don't think you're a loser. I think you're a workaholic!!
Take some time off and look after yourself... get yourself a nice girl or some good friends.

You know what money can't buy the precious time and memories you missed out on. Do you agree??

Answer 7

Sweetie, I took a peek at your 360. You are a party animal. That turns a lot of girls off because they are afraid you will not settle down and bring it into the relationship. You have a lot to offer a girl. You have accomplished so much. You need to look for girls outside of the clubs.

Answer 8

NO!!! I wouldnt say your a loser....i would say sounds like you have been busy making a steady future for yourself...and a lady when the time is right!!!
That sounds like an intelligent solid kinda guy to me....hope you find what your looking for.....but ya gotta get out there and look!!! saddle up cowboy.....
Good Luck & I hope you find what your looking for....

Answer 9

no lady it's not that bad my wife left me about a year ago with our two kids I found I was being lied too for 7 years of my life and now since the wife left I have to start my life totally over from like 7 years ago it's too bad I say your better off alone. spend the money on yourself or you could send it to me LOL

Answer 10

Have you noticed that in your description everything is almost about material things. Ever consider saying who YOU are rather than what you have. Work on that. Put yourself out there. Maybe that is the problem.