I know that most guys want the girl to be healthy and in shape but do they care about love handles or if the girl has a slight tummy bulge? I know and my school all the guys like the girls with the perfect bodies. Unfortunately, I am 13 and 5'4" 113 poundds which is a normal weight for me but have some fat places here and there. Do guys really care about this? Or do they think it's better when a girl is perfect?
2007-10-04 14:37:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
5'4? 113? YOUR NOT FAT!
That sounds pretty small to me...I'm 5'1 and 105...and I'm tiny...so I don't see how your fat.
If you have "problem" areas that need toned up, get urself involved in a sport through your school. Get active! You'll feel better and look better...but do it for YOURSELF!
Don't let any guy make you feel like your not awesome! Cause you are! There are as many guys out there who like "stick" girls, that there are guys that think that's gross and want a girl with meat and curves...If you go around trying to please everyone else, you will be so unhappy!
Good luck to you!
2007-10-04 14:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Chell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're visual, we look at everything. We can't walk into the locker room without sizing each other up. If you want more options, get slim! Yes, all guys think like that! The ones that don't, think they can't get anything better. Why do you think 2nd marriage divorce rate is so high? Because after a chick gets married, she gains weight. When she gets divorced she's too fat to get a real man so she'll wind up with some loser! Instead of becoming attractive again, she takes what she can get... which isn't much. What would YOU suggest we care about???
2016-05-21 02:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No One Is Perfect And You're Young-You're At A Health Weight-Don't Stress-A Guy Has To Like You For YOU-And You're Healthy-So Even If You Have A Lil Sumthin' There-Your Weight Seems Fine To Me Gurl.
2007-10-04 14:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well I think you are a bit to young to think about if you are attractive to boys. but to worry about your body is a good thing. You only get one so you should take care of it. sitting in front of a computer asking questions is fine as long as you don't over do it, but simply going out and doing any type of activity is healthy. get involved in a sport will easily keep you fit.
as far as the rest of your question. most boys will care about the body, but probably not to the extent you may be thinking "perfect" as you will find will vary from guy to guy. Most guys as we all mature look for a good balance between personality and body. boys your age probably are still in the physical stages though where body tends to play a bigger factor. Either way if a guy likes you only for your body you will find yourself in a meaningless relationship that will only bring you heartbreak.
2007-10-04 14:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Shag M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why am I answering this?
Anyway, I am a supposedly decent looking guy, and I have always been attracted to women with great faces and friendly personalities. I have gone out with some very toned women, but the body thing never really made much of a difference to me to be honest with you. I love spending time with a person, not a body.
2007-10-04 14:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jas 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
curves are good :-D besides its the guy that loves you no matter what you look like that you want. if he doesnt want you because you dont have a perfect body then do you really want to be with him? different guys like different bodies. i have a guy friend who is attracted to the big women, but most guys do like a little curve. i dont know about you but i would rather have a butt and boobs then be a stick
2007-10-04 14:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by avalon552 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has different tastes. So there is really no answer to your question. However being a little "fat" is ok as long as you are in good shape and you feel good about yourself.
2007-10-04 14:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by Michael M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course every guy would rather have a perfect girl....but go to the mall...or walkaround somewhere....look at adult couples and see if everyone has perfect bodies....they dont....as you get older...people begin to sacrifice "perfect bodies" for things like great personality and compassion. When u get into serious relationships and marriage...looks become the least of your troubles...
2007-10-04 14:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Flash Funk 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I know you're young, but stop worrying about how guys want you to be. You don't need to prove yourself to them. Anyone who doesn't like you for who you are is not worth your time. Do you really want to be around people who expect you to be a certain way?
2007-10-04 14:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jen due December 09 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate it whaen girls are anorexic trust me your fine and no guys dont care
2007-10-04 14:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋