I have always gone to an all girls school in Australia so I've never really been very close to guys. My friends say that I'm pretty and stuff but I dont know where to meet guys. I'm also not very sure if my parents would let me date. Plz help me. Feel free to ask questions coz I'de love your help!
2007-10-04 14:03:47 · 9 answers · asked by pipp 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At your age, that is totally normal. While I am sure you have friends of both sexes who might think this odd, and you might be tempted to date any guy that comes along just to make a point, that would be the wrong approach.For now continue to focus on your studies, your dreams , goals, and aspirations, enjoy the friends you currently have, and learn what being in love and having a boyfriend means.Having a boyfriend carries a lot of responsibilities that not everyone is ready for or can handle.With time you will learn how to handle the physical, emotional, mental, and psychological demands of romance and be better prepared, for you deserve the best. Good luck.
2007-10-04 14:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, you're only thirteen. Although there's probably a lot of psychological, biological, and peer pressure on you to date guys, most girls, I think, start dating around 16. If you'd never had a boyfriend by 21, I might start asking questions then. Your parents probably would be hesitant to let you go out dating, and I could hardly blame them, but only you and they know what they are thinking. Of course, by 21, you'll be totally independent I expect, and have plenty of opportunity to meet guys and date, so in the big scheme of things I'd value the simplicity of a guy-less life for now, because in a few years, your life will be pretty different, and what your parents and friends think about you dating wont be so important.
2007-10-04 21:20:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i wouldn't know how open your parents are but usually not...you're still VERY VERY young and have plenty of years ahead of you im sure you are very attractive but you don't want a guy that JUST likes you for your looks, i also went to an all girls school in australia ... if you want to meet boys you can try to meet them through friends, go out with them more if they have some kind of movie gathering or something ... but get to know the guy you don't want to hook up with randoms at drunk house parties because they are usually NOT good boyfriend material...
i guess your young and and its a time to make alot of mistakes but just be careful, yeah and don't rush into relationship ONE when the first guy starts flirting with you cuz you might regret when you meet another great guy or you realize you don't like u're new bf very much...
@.@ goodness i feel likei said too much.. just good luck... your still really young so don't worry!
2007-10-04 21:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Heidi C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really don't worry about it. You don't need men yet. They are really overrated, or so I've heard. All I know is that when I was your age the girls in relationships were much more stressed than those that weren't... enless they were in a desperate search for a boyfriend.
Just enjoy life, enjoy time with your friends and wait til you are a little older to worry about that kind of stuff. I mean if the opportunity arises great, but don't waste your energy to find a distraction... which is exactly what a boyfriend is.
2007-10-04 21:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am one of those girls who goes through guys like underwear and it is not any fun because i dont get to know any of them at all because we break up and move on so it is probably best that you havent had a boyfriend yet but you might want to start looking for one since you are going on 14
2007-10-04 21:15:10 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are 13 you don't need to have had a boyfriend.You have plenty of time for that stuff. Have fun with your friends and don't feel pressured by anyone. Be proud to be the one that isn't giving in to peer presure. Trust me when I say boys just add stress and confusion lol.
2007-10-04 21:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Teadles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only 13. You don't need any boy, just study and when you become 21 and if you have not had any bf ,then ask this question. For now forget about boys, they nothing but trouble.
2007-10-04 21:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by Nastia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOnt pressure yourself some people dont have a br or gf until their senior year
2007-10-04 21:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Samurai de WOT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a huge deal.
If it matters that much to you, say you have had a few before.
Nobody will question it. =)
2007-10-04 21:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by Katie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋