I have a boyfriend whom I love very much. We are even going to get married,,,If God has written it on our destiny. His brother lives in another apartment. My boyfriend introduced me to his brother. And I gave him my number. WE spoke in night as he had very hectic work shifts and could find time only in the night…He told me about his lost love, how she dumped him for another guy, etc… N I was trying to support him through bcoz I wanted to put a good impression on him as he was my boyfriend brother, so eventually he should feel I m a nice girl and fit to marry his brother and recommend me to his family. He said he wants to see me urgently so I went, He took me to his apartment. And there he told me he called me just like that. I got pretty mad. As I turned to leave, He locked the door. Then I tried to go through back door but he came from behind, caught my hand and took me his arms, I struggled back, trying to free myself, until my hand turned all red… finally he let go.
2007-10-04 07:16:45 · 12 answers · asked by goddess_of_fame 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend respects this brother of his very much and loves him too much. Shld I tell all this to my boyfriend? But I m afraid as he might think its my fault n leave me. I don’t want to loose him
2007-10-04 07:17:26 · update #1
Hi there !
Think about the worst that can happen ! what will happen to the maximum ? "Nothing"....or ...
maybe he will "bye"...thats all..
So, today itself, have a chat with your BF and open up...okay ? Explain to him ...in detail...okay ?
On the contrary, if you dont tell him today, consequences could be more serious in future...agree ?
So choose the former option...
best wishes !
2007-10-04 13:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by suresh k 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear sister, you to do one important thing. You should have kicked between the legs of your boyfriend's brother as then the pain that he would have received would have been a good reminder to him against misbehaving with any other innocent girl like you in the future. Without fail, inform your boyfriend about this incident and if you find that your boyfriend is supporting his own evil brother, then dump your boyfriend for another good soul. You are a good soul. Don't give into the demands of these male chauvinists.
2007-10-04 07:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by SHAHAZAD SHAIKH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't think too much....tell ur Bf about it! Let him know the reality....nd don't worry...if he truly loves u, he'll understand u!!!
Do not accept this kind of behavior from his brother....He has hurt u Today, n if u don't say anything...or try to ignore it......He will definitely repeat it again in future....n that could be more harassing!......Just tell ur love that u were only trying to sympathize with his brother nd u equally respect him. Everything shall be all right!!!!
2007-10-04 07:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a mistake on the first instance.After the introduction you should have avoided him but you gave him your number. More over you gave patient hearing to his so called love story, all these prompted him to attempt on you as you went to his apartment. To get rid of, without further delay you must tell your bf otherwise his brother will not spare you in future.
2007-10-04 16:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by nazbak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend what happened and don't worry about what happens next. It's not your problem. I'm guessing that this isn't the first time it's happened either. I know from experience. My brother did the same crap to some of my girlfriends.
2007-10-04 07:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by Steve F 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
move out! lol I hope his brother is not a moocher and has a set time to be out ya house. THis is always a conversation you and ya man should have before time moves on so you both can be at a understanding.
2016-04-07 03:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do one thing tie a rakhi on your bf's bro's wrist in front of god and your bf... if his bro denies then force him on basis of sister sentiments... and still if it does not work then just confess the insecurity and the scenario taht happened with you without blaming....
2007-10-04 10:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him. If he blames you, then you two were not meant to be and be prepared to move on. However, give the guy a chance to prove whether he is or isn't the right guy for you. What his brother did was wrong and he should be punished for it.
2007-10-04 07:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you really love your b/f and want to marry him, you should tell him but underplaying the incident, so there are no complicaitons in future.
2007-10-05 00:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jumping Sun 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should have given him a tight on his bloody face...as the time is gone dont do anything if next time something similar take place u better tell it to ur love
2007-10-04 07:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by humera s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋