Cuz, that's what happened in my house this week.
2007-10-04 06:59:54 · 23 answers · asked by hottie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Hey, I got 3 thumbs down for that comment. This is a tough crowd today.
2007-10-04 07:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Samurai Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think cheating out of revenge or spite is very unlikely to satisfy either of your respective needs. If you are attracted to and/or have feelings for this woman, that is a separate issue from your husband cheating. If he is or you suspect he is, I think the best way to go about it is to sit down, tell him you know and whether you will accept such an arrangement on his part, then talk it through like adults. If he has suddenly realized he's gay, if you have fallen in love with the woman, or if you are otherwise at an impasse, you might need to part ways.
I am a Christian, just to be up front. I believe sex is best kept between two people who are committed to loving each other. I do not think about it in terms of right and wrong but I do think about it in terms of loving others (i.e. putting their needs on par with your own even when they hurt you). For whatever that's worth.
2007-10-04 07:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know the first thing about gay people, or society and respect for that manner. Your husband cannot "Turn" gay, he must have already been. Or he is simply just kind to gay people. Second, you should not be cheating and fooling around with other people, if you can't handle marriage, file for divorce.
2016-05-20 23:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what him's name
2007-10-04 07:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends on how you feel about it. Do you feel betrayed to the point that things couldn't be resolved? I find trust is a number one factor in a relationship. I wouldn't suggest it to get back at him. However, if you are attracted to women and an open relationship is a possibility for you and you could talk to one another about it, then go for it. Otherwise leave him before you end up getting hurt more.
2007-10-04 07:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by vrueger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rough week.
Hurting another person is never right. So revenge sex not only hurts your spouse but most likely the person who is participating with you.
I would just find the easiest way to get out of the situation, without causing much hurt. You have experienced enough.
2007-10-04 07:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by ɹɐǝɟsuɐs Blessed Cheese Maker 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Revenging is never good. Make an example to him in a good way, if you stil care about him. Even though he hurt you, don't hurt him back, just talk to him and see what you both want and what's gonna happen.
If you do what he did, you're no better than him
2007-10-04 07:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by larissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proverbs 26:5 Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own conceit.
2007-10-04 07:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by just a man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
up to you. but if you're going to cheat anyway, why not just cheat with another man you prefer? unless you prefer a woman, that is, then I don't know what to say.
2007-10-04 07:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by The Asker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh, that makes him Bi, not gay.
I suppose you could, however I dont think that will have a positive effect on the relationship. Instead, leaving him is the better idea... Or, you could double your pleasure by inviting his boyfriend over.....
2007-10-04 07:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋