my fiance is poor too. you know what i get from his is the line oh its too late for me im too old . i keep saying no its not plus he wants to live with his parents till there died its totally unfair to me. dont either to stay or go my own way.and i love him like crazy too i dont know what to do. I still live at home with my parents too but there pressuring me to move out. its making me so upset. all because my dad doesnt want to be a parent anymore and wants to see me well established before his died i mean i cryed when i was with my boyfirend all because of my father is presurring me im trying to get a job and stuff but still his still pressuring me. howdo i get him to stop. or what should i do.
2007-10-04 06:23:21 · 2 answers · asked by jerseygirlprincess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey. thats really tough. im sorry. i dont know much about anyting, but ive got sun stuff i think ll help. I dont really know what ur style is as far as movies is concerned. but theyve always got this type of thing. like in legally blonde, where she gets ticked off, and then shes like "ill show you how valuable elle woods can be!' and then she goes in and buys a computer, starts getting questions right, gets the dog back (u get the idea) Anyway it is hard to do that in real life. Why dont u make a plan and sit down with your dad. Tell him ok. ive got a plan. I will get a job in the next two months. Then I'll save up, as will my fiancee. Then, lets say in a year, you'll have enough cash to rent out an apartment. Im sure your dad loves u. He just wants u to be successful. And im sure he doesnt plan on dying anytime soon. sit down. tell him how you feel. the schedule will help because men like structure and solidity. best of luck, sweetie pie!
2007-10-04 06:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell dear old dad you respect his wishes but you need to make your own decisions about your future. Then go ahead and decide.
2007-10-04 06:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋