Why would you become jealous?
2007-10-04 06:22:26 · 26 answers · asked by Kayz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not acceptable ever and I cannot imagine becoming that way. Sorry!
2007-10-04 06:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by rumbler_12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would become jealous if:
1:You are insecure
2:You've been cheated on,past/present
3:You have no trust in eachother
4:He/she doesn't make you feel loved or wanted
I think everyone in relationships can have a little bit of jealousy at some point in time,but it's how bad and out of control it can get that can cause major problems.
Jealousy can eat away at a relationship,if you let it, but I always think,if he's going to cheat on me he'll do it regardless of me being jealous or not,so I do try not to be overly jealous,cos if we're both happy together,chances are he won't be tempted elsewhere.
Unfounded jealousy just gives you needless mental torture. And if he's doing something out of line (apart from cheating) ,just be open with him and tell him how much it hurts you,if he loves you he won't do it again.
Just be happy and only worry when you have real factual cause to.
And remember,too much jealousy can drive someone away from you.
I always live by this in any relationship:
"Never do to others what you would not like done to yourself".
And:
"We can all look,but we don't touch".
2007-10-07 03:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by tinyfeet64 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a jealous person so not sure.. If your happy together and a secure person there's no need to be jealous is there. There should be trust and commitment in a relationship so why would jealousy become a problem.. I think it's all to do with the individual.
2007-10-04 06:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by kl240 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never acceptable to become jealous in a relationship.... You have no business bringing baggage from previous relationships into a new one. If the person you are in the new relationship with has cheated or lied giving you reason, then you should end the relationship and move on.
2007-10-04 06:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by LLTTF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get jealous it means you don't trust. If you don't trust then the relationship is no good. You should never what to make someone feel jealous. If you are the one becoming jealous then you need to look at yourself and ask why. Are you self-concious or do you really not trust the other person.
2007-10-04 06:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by ~irish~moon~star~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is the route to the end of a relationship.. I know its hard sometimes not to feel jealous. But if you do then you need to look at the relationship, nd wonder whether ur right for eachother.. If you have a solid commited relationship there should, in an ideal world be no reason to feel like that.. Trust plays a massive part when two people are together, nd if you aint got that, then there'l defo be jealousy..tlk to your partner nd see were u stand..u sound like you need re-assurance that they care..good luck, hope it works out...x
2007-10-04 07:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by Amy x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a jealous natured person, but there is something within everyone I think when they know something is off. If you feel like they are looking too long, or talking too much to a certain someone, your instincts will let you know. Trust your gut. I never get jealous with my husband cause I know he only wants me, but trust me with some of my ex's I got crazy jealous and it was always right on!
2007-10-04 06:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Longhorn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in voicing your opinion to a person when they are out of line, but to act jealous and make a scene? Absolutely not. I don't show it if I ever become jealous, I take my boyfriend on the side or when we are alone and I lay it out on the line. Never a scene, not cool to do.
2007-10-04 06:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by sunfire1165 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is easy to say what should and shouldnt make people jealous but it doesnt work that way. I get jealous easily at silly things but it just causes arguments and it isnt attractive either but i cant help it. It is acceptable when you can clearly see your partner has feelings for someone else. My sisters bf gets jealous when she looks at men on tv like celebs which is sad.
2007-10-04 06:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by adele18xx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a natural reaction when the other person in a relationship is a chronic flirt, ignoring you on multiple occasions, or was caught in a sexual act with someone else (including kissing). If this is happening to you, you will need to have a frank and honest discussion with the other person in the relationship to decide whether to continue the relationship or break it off right away.
2007-10-04 06:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally if I'm in a relationship I would never show my jealous, I think it's dumb to show it, it shows u care to much. No body likes a person who cares to much, I don't think it's never acceptable, but then again ppl are stupid. If I'm with a chick and she flirts with a guy, and I tell her what are u doing, I wouldn't call that jealousy I'll call it respect. You have to be more specific with ur question
2007-10-04 06:26:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋